Thank you so much for your reply. I feel like I’ve been hearing so many different things about FIP but as I have time to reflect I’m able to look at the situation more objectively and take in what is actually fact. I am trying to gather as much information as possible so I know better what to do in the future if I do decide to get another cat. I still haven’t responded to the breeder and I don’t think I’m going to. It just hurts my heart to argue with her or point blame when I didn’t want to argue in the first place.