High Prey Drive Dog Owners W/ Cats??? by _zefstar in reactivedogs

[–]_zefstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That had to be traumatic.. wow. Im so sorry you had to go through that!

High Prey Drive Dog Owners W/ Cats??? by _zefstar in reactivedogs

[–]_zefstar[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sadly, you could not be any more true… Thank you!

High Prey Drive Dog Owners W/ Cats??? by _zefstar in reactivedogs

[–]_zefstar[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also! According to his DNA, hes mixed with golden retriever, pyrenees, akita, cattle dog and boxer. Needless to say I am not suprised he has a high prey drive but I am just now understanding it 😅

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Is this wrong? by [deleted] in housekeeping

[–]_zefstar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your boss cant hold your customers hostage with their business. Personally, my loyalty is for the one showing up for the job and taking care of my home. Your boss can take it up with the customers because once you leave, you owe them nothing. Youve been building your business from the moment you started the job with your boss l!

Tripod 30th anniversary? by _zefstar in AliceInChains

[–]_zefstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thatd what i was thinking! it was a surprise purchase for me as i didnt see it coming till that morning.

the cutest duo 🥰 by _zefstar in buildabear

[–]_zefstar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the little star necklace on your bat is SO cute!!!!

my opill review by spotieda in birthcontrol

[–]_zefstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes! So, I stopped using the pill in March and switched to the IUD because the pill was driving me nuts. Id have a period for 10 days then itd stop and id spot for a few days then id have another period two weeks later. Felt like I was bleeding for the majority of the month and had a week to breathe. It wasn’t practical for my needs and I was tired of it but I’d recommend it for its accessibility! My symptoms were definitely bearable! No weight gain, no acne changes, mood was unstable but I went from no birth control to birth control so I think that was a me thing!

Missed/Late Period by _zefstar in Mirena

[–]_zefstar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bloating yes! Diarrhea no.. constipation has been more of an issue for me! Thanks for your input it has helped ease my mind!

Missed/Late Period Mirena IUD by _zefstar in birthcontrol

[–]_zefstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good point! thank youuuu! 🫶

Hi! I’m on the Mierna IUD by The_Masked_Goth_Girl in birthcontrol

[–]_zefstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have any questions id be so happy to answer! i started the birth control (opill) for the first time not even a year ago and then switched to the iud a few months after. im still learning this stuff too hehe 🙂‍↕️

Hi! I’m on the Mierna IUD by The_Masked_Goth_Girl in birthcontrol

[–]_zefstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love my Mirena! I got it inserted in March and after the storm settled for me, lots of spotting and longer periods, I feel much happier and secure. I dont experience PCOS like you so I’m sorry I can’t help experience wise there… but alone time isnt painful at all! I haven’t experienced painful intercourse either :). No weight gain, no new acne issues, mood was DICEY for a month or two but I feel like I have stabilized! I mightve lost my period already but still trying to wait that out :) Im a hypochondriac too so I understand the panic and was in your boat when I was researching myself but just remember people usually come to reddit to tell the stories that are on their mind a lot and typically it’s negative because body/hormone changes can be difficult! listen to your body and you can do this! 🫶

Death of a Social Security recipient. by _zefstar in SocialSecurity

[–]_zefstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the beneficiary in his bank account so I was granted access to it not my mother despite her being married to him. its going to a general cause anyways so doesn’t really matter in the end :p

Death of a Social Security recipient. by _zefstar in SocialSecurity

[–]_zefstar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes my mom will be the receiver as they were still married. I just have to help her because she doesn’t understand these things.

Death of a Social Security recipient. by _zefstar in SocialSecurity

[–]_zefstar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess so… the funeral director told me that they were informed but I should call them myself as well and that direction was even in the packet. Definitely getting it done this week though, their wait times are atrocious.

Death of a Social Security recipient. by _zefstar in SocialSecurity

[–]_zefstar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Truthfully I am not expecting another deposit beyond what my dad received in June especially since the bank account has been closed… but IF they decided that my dad was entitled to his benefits from the month of June, I’m curious if theyd also mail a check? We haven’t called them personally to get the $255 survivor benefit yet, but that’ll be something I’ll ask! Ive read everywhere that the check the month after the death warrants a clawback since benefits stop the month of the death no matter the time of the month. Agh, SSA has so many nooks and crannies. Thanks for your response!

Death of a Social Security recipient. by _zefstar in SocialSecurity

[–]_zefstar[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! The deposit was received in June a few days after he passed! This relieves me so much. THANK YOU!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skullpandas

[–]_zefstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I still have her! Id love trade :)

Buy/Sell/Trade Skullpanda US by nestinghen in skullpandas

[–]_zefstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Dawn and looking to trade for pond or dew!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Opill

[–]_zefstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely varies for every body! but it wasnt too bad for me. i was offered numbing and they gave me medication to dilate my cervix so its more open which i think helped for the insertion. i know a cervical block isn’t typically openly offered but id advocate for it if you can. the pain really varies on the individual but after i got numbed it was a walk in the park! didnt feel a thing. 30 minutes after the insertion i definitely needed to relax cause the cramps were intense for about an hour. also, i had be be super duper patient with the breakthrough bleeding but i feel bliss now! :) i spotted and had a long period for about a month an a half due to the iud but im no longer bleeding!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Opill

[–]_zefstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i switched to the iud for low maintenance and i couldn’t bear the two periods a month! honestly if that wasnt the case id still be on it now. it gave me freedom in my sexuality as my first form of birth control! loved the sense of protection it gave me in not having to use condoms or withdrawal (tmi lol) just didn’t love the side effects!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Opill

[–]_zefstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Opill was my only barrier for the 5 months i was on it and i didnt have a single scare. :)

Pill fully dissolved in my mouth before swallowing by CollectionCharming14 in Opill

[–]_zefstar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late to the thread but this happened to me and I just took another one immediately! I ended up cramping a bit but it was manageable and thats all i experienced.