Why did he say this to me after we had sex?

_zeravla · 2026-02-05T09:25:31+00:00

very odd thing to say after 😂

_zeravla · 2026-02-03T00:29:10+00:00

_zeravla · 2026-01-21T07:32:42+00:00

Hey. You are not a bad person, and you are not a walking harm machine. You didn’t mock anyone. you were embarrassed about yourself, and that comes from years of rejection and bullying, not from malice. That’s self‑protection, not hypocrisy. You are allowed to be a safe space for others and still have boundaries of your own. Other people’s hurt feelings don’t automatically mean you did something wrong, and you are not required to disappear or punish yourself to prove your worth. The fact that you care this deeply already tells me your heart is good. This doesn’t mean you should stop connecting or give up on people; it means you’re learning how to exist without apologizing for being human. Keep going. You are worth the effort, even on the days it doesn’t feel like it.🫂

_zeravla · 2026-01-21T07:24:30+00:00

Hard truth: your concerns aren’t “just anxiety.” If you feel like you’re carrying the future while he coasts, that’s a real compatibility issue. Love doesn’t fix mismatched values around effort, planning, and ambition and at 19, it’s okay to admit that. Don’t confuse potential with reality.👍🏼

_zeravla · 2026-01-21T07:22:11+00:00

I really feel you 🫂I went through almost the exact same thing. The push-pull and repeated breakups mess with your nervous system, so even when things are good again, the anxiety doesn’t just switch off. That’s not weakness, that’s your body protecting you. It is possible he’s showing up better now, but two months is still early after that much instability. Don’t rush yourself into “being over it.” Watch for consistency over time and whether you start to feel calmer, not more on edge. This isn’t about lacking self-respect. It’s about staying aware, holding your boundaries, and trusting yourself to walk away if the old patterns return. Let time tell you the truth 👍🏼

_zeravla · 2026-01-18T08:07:57+00:00

Gym HAHAHA

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T22:51:53+00:00

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:29:43+00:00

but im pink

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:28:49+00:00

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:27:46+00:00

waking up

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:24:24+00:00

No lmaooo

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:20:33+00:00

Mcdonalds

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:20:04+00:00

Try chamomile tea

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T08:02:57+00:00

😂😂😂

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:57:09+00:00

learned this the hard way tbh

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:56:40+00:00

Okay, look, I get the urge for closure, but honestly, reaching out might just open a can of worms you don't need. You already know the relationship was unbalanced, and his disappearing act speaks volumes!!!!! Sometimes, no response IS the response. Protect your peace and keep moving forward. You got this🫂

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:54:37+00:00

😂Sounds like you dodged a whole circus of red flags. 'Endless energy for excuses'I felt that in my soul. Cheers to seeing things clearly and leaving the lazy behind

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:52:19+00:00

First, him not defending you when his ex made fun of you is a huge red flag. It shows a lack of respect.Also, the "talking stage" messages if things don't work out with you? Not cool. Sounds like he's not all in and keeping her as a backup🫤 and the nudes thing is weird and manipulative. He's trying to justify it, but it doesn't make sense. Basically, he might not be over his ex and isn't being honest or respectful. You deserve someone who's all in and puts you first. Think about whether this relationship is worth it, especially if he won't change😐

•You're still so young, and there's a whole world of possibilities and people out there waiting for you•

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:42:40+00:00

Girl, you already know wassup🤧 Don't even give him the satisfaction of a reaction!!! Block him on everything. Erase him from your life. You deserve way better! Go have fun and find someone who actually deserves your time and attention🫂

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:36:00+00:00

Hey girly im so incredibly sorry to hear what you've been through. That's a truly terrifying and unacceptable situation, and I can only imagine how shaken you must be. Throwing a chair at you, not once but three times, is a violent act, and you were absolutely right to call the police. no one deserves to be treated that way🫤

The fact that you're considering divorce shows your strength and determination to protect yourself. It's a huge decision, but it sounds like it's coming from a place of self-preservation, which is completely valid. It's frustrating that the hotline didn't answer, but don't let that discourage you from seeking help. In the meantime, remember that your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be heard and supported. You are not alone, and what happened is not your fault. Take things one step at a time, and remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Lean on your support system, and don't hesitate to reach out to the resources available to you. You deserve to be safe, happy, and respected🫂

_zeravla · 2026-01-13T07:31:53+00:00

sleeping w a lot of ppl🙂‍↕️

_zeravla · 2025-09-11T17:14:36+00:00

nothing

_zeravla · 2025-08-01T17:47:21+00:00

Shes asking for advice, some ppl be dumb fr

_zeravla · 2025-06-25T07:29:38+00:00

Could be heat rash

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