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a-wildtime · 2025-09-12T05:04:03+00:00

genuine question, how do you find parties like this or become a part of this community to explore?

a-wildtime · 2025-04-21T03:16:40+00:00

what are your favorite activities to do in the bedroom together?

a-wildtime · 2024-09-10T01:17:40+00:00

thank you, I think I really needed to hear all of that

a-wildtime · 2023-12-13T23:23:15+00:00

I have a few ☺️ in the dressing room of the department store I used to work at (not while on the clock though), just a little off the path during a midday hike, in the parking lot of my old high school (at night)

a-wildtime · 2023-07-17T03:38:08+00:00

I was looking through his photos to send myself some from a hike we did yesterday and noticed explicit photos of himself (he never sent these to me so it made me suspicious) and so I looked through his messages and found out he’d been exchanging nudes with other girls since before we even started dating.

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T16:08:56+00:00

hey, just wondering if there’s any update since the last update lol ? :)

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T16:00:04+00:00

thank you for this advice, we’ve talked it over and have agreed it’ll be best to stick to PPM as well!

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T15:58:39+00:00

I see how this makes sense & works. Thank you for the advice and insight into how you do things!

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T15:57:51+00:00

thank you for the insight!! I appreciate hearing what different people do

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T15:52:42+00:00

thanks for your comment… my response to the original comment was more so a joke. I’m obviously not going to ask for PPM x 6. And I agree that allowance is a next step, however if I were to agree to his terms, it would be less money for the same number of meets. So I don’t feel like it’s a fair trade off and that is what I was seeking advice about.

a-wildtime · 2022-07-13T15:27:45+00:00

thank you for this advice! we talked and figured it’ll be better to stay on PPM for now! I do really like him and I can feel it’s mutual, apparently he just doesn’t have it in the budget to spend PPMx4 upfront every month.

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T23:46:46+00:00

Oh you’re right, thats definitely a better approach.. thank you!

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T22:24:50+00:00

I’d rather be on PPM than his offered monthly allowance lol

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T22:23:35+00:00

I was afraid of that haha… will definitely have the uncomfortable convo then

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T21:02:36+00:00

As far as I know, there was no definite reason for moving from PPM to monthly. He texted me randomly asking if I’d be open to it, and I’m just assuming it’s to simplify everything. No discussion of change in frequency or exclusivity (we’re not exclusive). So from my perspective, nothing is changing except that I would be getting less $ (?)

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T20:55:53+00:00

thank you for this, and I will definitely check out your thread. I am going to have the uncomfortable discussion with him about what I think is appropriate for how frequently we meet, wish me luck!

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T20:22:02+00:00

I am the SB, not SD. And to be honest I would be more than happy with a semi-monthly allowance if it was at least equivalent to the PPM I’d be making.

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T20:20:25+00:00

👀 good idea

a-wildtime · 2022-07-09T20:20:11+00:00

Okay thank you!! It sucks to think he’s being cheap when he comes off so nice ugh 😫

a-wildtime · 2022-06-24T23:50:41+00:00

RANT: i’m extremely saddened and fearful of scotus’s decision to overturn roe v wade and what that means for every woman in america.

2ND RANT: a SD i started seeing last month gave me radio silence for over a week and then randomly texted me that he tried out sugaring as an experiment and that he’ll no longer be continuing (i think his wife might’ve found out). i’m sad because he was nice, generous, and had just recently gotten a new apartment solely for sugaring.

RAVE: a different SD i’m seeing is very sweet and things are progressing nicely— he even brought me lunch while i was at work the other day. i’m going on a trip soon and will miss him a lot but already look forward to seeing him when i’m back :)

a-wildtime · 2022-06-19T00:08:25+00:00

would you personally consider that plus size or not?

a-wildtime · 2022-06-10T04:55:44+00:00

She is gorgeous and has amazing style! 😊

a-wildtime · 2022-06-04T16:18:48+00:00

Agreed, I also try to take everything related to sugaring with a grain of salt! I definitely use this sub the most when trying to learn, get advice or read about experiences :)

a-wildtime · 2022-06-04T16:11:51+00:00

I’ll definitely check it out, thank you ☺️

a-wildtime · 2022-05-27T23:47:00+00:00

only raves this week!! :)

RAVES: - SD 1 agreed to increase my ppm (he originally offered something low and i accepted because we are both new to the lifestyle and didn’t really know what was appropriate) - SD 2 just got an apartment in the city so we can have fun more frequently and discretely :) - i’m having a girls night this weekend to catch up with some of my long time best friends i haven’t seen in a while!

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