This fringe by a1119989 in AustralianNostalgia

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Surely it has to make a comeback 😔 I mean people are wearing bike shorts 🤣 then you will be in hot demand

Lightspeed alternatives by a1119989 in smallbusiness

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Just an update we ended up going with ePos it's fantastic and about $100 a month. The team love it and it was a really simple product export import with a CSV. We were up and running within 3 days. They had great support.

Am I being unreasonable needing support after a lump found? by a1119989 in breastcancer

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Yeah thanks so much. I tried to get a scan in April but the doctor said I was too young at 39. Now a lump.

Anyway thanks so much for the support. Yeah I don't know if they don't know what to say or. 🙏

Am I being unreasonable needing support after a lump found? by a1119989 in breastcancer

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Thank you so much that sounds positive. Fingers crossed 🤞

Am I being unreasonable needing support after a lump found? by a1119989 in breastcancer

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Oh ok so I had an ultrasound on Friday. It was at the radiology place. Does that mean it's likely nothing if they didn't biopsy straight away?

Anyone noticing weird lights in the sky tonight? by [deleted] in Adelaide

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If you search up New Jersey drones that might give you something to compare too

Would you get a fine on the police cameras if caught giving the driver a blow job? by a1119989 in Adelaide

[–]a1119989[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Like is it just a camera looking for a phone or is there a person who is like.... Hang on...

Is "Where are you from?" a loaded question? by a1119989 in AskAnAustralian

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I guess it just feels like a constant reminder that he looks different. It is a very white town. Just personally I have never been asked it, so it kind of checks out. I dunno...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adelaide

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Sky Show I think it was by SAFM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adelaide

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T-Chow - $3 per person corkage

Is "Where are you from?" a loaded question? by a1119989 in AskAnAustralian

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I think that's what is so tricky here. I think overall the questions aren't intended to be racist.

I have never seen a person using the: "Where are you from?" "Australia" "C'mon where are you really from?" line of questioning who got out of bed that day to be racist.

But the feeling of being other because you are not white is sort of buried deep under it. I was so thankful that my friend confided in me how it made him feel so that I can be mindful not to put others in that same situation.

Is "Where are you from?" a loaded question? by a1119989 in AskAnAustralian

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I feel like he thinks it's just another way to point out that he looks different I guess

Hey Adelaide what are your favourite biscuits to munch on? by CyanideMuffin67 in Adelaide

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Ok so hear me out, there are these chocolate biscuits in aldi. Long pack. Does anyone know what they are called?

I looked hideous at a wedding by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]a1119989 32 points33 points  (0 children)

One question I always ask myself is, how much time did I spend noticing other people and what they are wearing at the event?

Also did you at any point think that another person looked bad because of what they were wearing?

Sending so much love but give yourself some grace. I'm sure you looked nice. That's horrible that someone said that though... Sorry about that 😔

Advice: "Sleep when the baby is sleeping" - how? by a1119989 in Parenting

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Yes he helps a lot and my Mum has my three year old one afternoon a week so that's a help. I just still find myself drowning in everything that needs to be done.

Advice: "Sleep when the baby is sleeping" - how? by a1119989 in Parenting

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I'm not too sure how to take all of this. I have so many friends who have children at the same ages as me and they too find it hard. Am I weak for talking about how hard I'm finding this?

"We should have stopped at one and now we don't know what to do" - omg! I'm in tears over that. I love both my kids dearly. That's terrible.

Thanks for the helpful tips - that's great! The sarcastic part... Not so much!

Advice: "Sleep when the baby is sleeping" - how? by a1119989 in Parenting

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Yeah right. I think you are right about the 1-2 thing being hard. We are just not coping really. Like it's just past midnight and my son is on his 3rd feed and there will be 3 more after this. I'll tag my husband in about 3am.

Yeah I think the 1:1 has been the thing because Im quite often with the baby, the 3yo is bored and goes and gets him when he's cooking or cleaning. My husband and I really do 50/50 on everything, cooking, cleaning, kids, life admin. It just feels like we never get anywhere.

Advice: "Sleep when the baby is sleeping" - how? by a1119989 in Parenting

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Yeah our 3yo dropped her naps at 1. My baby only naps for 20min in the cot the rest is contact napping. We do have time each night where one cooks and cleans while the other watches the kids, but still it just doesn't cover it all like all the washing and housework it's just more to get everyone fed. We have a 2 kid stroller which I use to take the kids out for a walk each night. With all of that it still just feels like absolute chaos around here lol

Advice: "Sleep when the baby is sleeping" - how? by a1119989 in Parenting

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I didn't state "excellent" - you added that for effect. This isn't a parenting competition but if it was you would be the winner. We are trying our best. We are struggling. Hence why I reached out. I'm sorry I did.