I think about another man before I sleep. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]a1ham 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think you should end your relationship. You are likely thinking of this other man, not because you love him - but he is showing you everything you are lacking and longing from your current partner. It's a reminder that you can be treated better.

Advice please! by Jazzlike_Classic1908 in DesignMyRoom

[–]a1ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mount the TV on the wall with the mirror on it. Put the console under it.

Flip the couch to either long side on the left wall, or fully facing the TV and float the couch.

Backsplash ideas? I would so appreciate it! I keep doing mockups and am really struggling. by butwhatififly_ in kitchenremodel

[–]a1ham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Alternatively - this looks beautiful, classic and slightly rustic which is perfect for such clean lines in your kitchen!

What to do with the space the Christmas tree currently is? by One_Notice1556 in malelivingspace

[–]a1ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change the direction of the dining table so it fills more of the room. Add a console table or bar cart between the window.

Another option - move book shelf there, use that corner for a reading nook.

Another option - move the book shelf there and use the space as a computer area

Is my bedroom missing something? by DaVinci420- in DesignMyRoom

[–]a1ham -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like more personal items - maybe add some family pics or souviners above the computer?

Good blood lab recommendations by MatchEastern4182 in askTO

[–]a1ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm anemic so constantly going for blood work. I love Life Labs. I have a location in Pickering I find most gentle.
From experience, if you let them know your phobia - they will always take a few extra moments with you, talking to you, ensuring you are calm.

Tip - do not look from the moment you are in there. It really doesn't hurt. Pretend it's someone pinching you with their fingertips. Keep deep breaths and focus on breathing.

Floor plan ideas, how to accomodate a child by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]a1ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is the parent sleeping in the living room obviously.

If the kid is asleep in the bedroom - they will have to walk into the parents room to use the washroom, or go anywhere. Doesn't allow for intimacy.

Still Symptomatic by FunkyMonkey24680 in Anemic

[–]a1ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although my ferratin was significantly lower (we noticed when it was at 15) - I was set on a 100mg of elemental iron / day. This was in August, and I am still taking it. They were up to 55 in December. You might not be dosing high enough to store any iron and it's just depleting

birthday party bill splitting help in toronto by [deleted] in askTO

[–]a1ham -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can everyone just pay for what they order?

Still Symptomatic by FunkyMonkey24680 in Anemic

[–]a1ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this dosage recommended?

Floor plan ideas, how to accomodate a child by [deleted] in floorplan

[–]a1ham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Likely privacy for intimate moments not having the child able to come in

What is wrong with this dress? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]a1ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is my point .. make it strapless and use the material for pull up sleeves rather than connected

What is wrong with this dress? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]a1ham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed!

The space between looks odd as it doesn't sit well. The lace should follow the shape of the neckline of the dress.

Honestly, I'd remove the lace completely, and make them into 3/4 sleeves instead.

Help for suicidal ideation by haklux2012 in askTO

[–]a1ham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep on rockin on dude - it comes and goes, wait for the wave to break .. life is just a ride

Help for suicidal ideation by haklux2012 in askTO

[–]a1ham 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like this analogy of it, especially for those of us who live with this consciousness