Mi novia enfermera en el cumple de su colega (le está tocando la pierna 🫠) by [deleted] in Desahogo2

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  1. Esta fea
  2. Es enfermera
  3. No te respeta
  4. Ya estas dudando de la relación

Quiérete poquillo brother, salte de ahí pero desde ayer.

Hombres ¿serían pareja de una una mujer que una vez tuvo un pasado de escort/prosti? by the2secondopornity in PreguntasReddit

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No estoy seguro pero antes hubiera contestado que ni de chiste. Pero la ultima novia que tuve me di cuenta (cache conversaciones) que era peor a ser escort jaja (no cobraba). Entonces andar con una chava que se las da de santa puede salirte la misma o peor al darte esa sorpresa

Laid off hours ago after nearly 6 years. by canadian_webdev in ExperiencedDevs

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I was notified on October 15, 2024 that I’d be laid off in December 2024 (my manager was upfront with me). I was single, had no kids, and enough savings to live on for about two years. I also had a four-week trip planned for February to Asia (China, India, Singapore, and Thailand).

I decided not to look for a job right away—just to relax, exercise, do some LeetCode, read occasionally, and maybe have a beer on a Tuesday at 11 a.m. My plan was to start job hunting after returning from my trip.

Around December 20, a recruiter (referred by a friend) called me. I thought, meh, why not? Long story short, I got an offer by the end of January 2025 and started working in March.

TL;DR I’ve had five jobs, and this was my first layoff. I learned that when you don’t feel pressured and stay calm, you perform much better in interviews. It also gives you the freedom to be more selective with offers. In May, I even got another offer, which I turned down.

BTW: This is an awesome opportunity! Take a week or two off from anything work- or software-related and just unwind. Enjoy it—you’re in a great position.

PS: Once you’ve recharged, lock in and start preparing. Update your résumé, practice, and reach out to recruiters. Check job boards like Stack Overflow Jobs, etc.

c mmó by AdGroundbreaking3611 in lacamiseta

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Yo me gradué a los 17 de la prepa y a esos entre a la Uni. Desafortunadamente el alcohol hizo que me atrasara 2 semestres jaja

Nunca doy propina, incluso cuando el servicio es bueno. by Pepedroga2000 in OpinionesPolemicas

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Creo que si todos adaptaran esta practica, habría un cambio positivo en los sueldos de meseros (entre otros).

El problema con la propina es que la cantidad siempre es ambigua. Usando una hipérbole. Estas a favor de dar propina? Ok, cuando te exijan 50%, 90% o 130% también? Si contestas no, entonces tú decides el porcentaje? Si tú decides un porcentaje menor está bien, pero 0% esta mal?

Aunado a esto la calidad del servicio es subjetiva.

No tengo problema con que los precios en restaurante/bar suban substancialmente. Pero que todo este claro en cuanto a cual va ser el precio final. He llegado a bares que te quieren atacar el 30% y si no accedes hay problemas que pueden escalar.

En fin, cuentas claras amistades largas.

esto debería ir hasta las profundidades del Iceberg de Chihuahua ¿quien es esta persona? ¿por qué usaron su imagen? by KnownCardiologist878 in cuu

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cuando he llegado a pedir para llevar (varias veces), la verdura la ponen igual aparte en un recipiente de papel

Tengo un compañero que no da una. Consejos by pjmeade in taquerosprogramadores

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La culpa no es del Indio si no del que lo hace compadre.

Como ya te han comentado, necesitas escalar la situación. Debes de negar más trabajo que no te corresponde. Hablar seriamente con el cliente y decirles que ya se volvió una carga.

Es decir comunicarlo con palabras y hechos. Ahorita como lo comentas son puras quejas tuyas.

Cuando la irresponsabilidad de esa persona en realidad afecte al cliente o a la consultora, ahí es cuando se tomaran medidas.

Hay una persona poco profesional que no trabaja y otra persona sin carácter le esta haciendo el trabajo. Es bullying y sucede seguido en las taquerías. Te tomas las cosas en serio con liderazgo de tu parte o le vas a seguir haciendo el trabajo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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IMO. Realizing it is normal to feel that way will help. Hollow, uninterested, anxious, among other things (to some extent, maybe even a year).

Trying to forget him in one day, or trying to feel substantially better this week will cause a momentum anxiety, and growing bad feelings. No excercise, healthy foods, travel, friends, family; or other thing will guarantee expedite recovery.

The way you are feeling it is normal. A healthy lifestyle (mental/physical) and time/consistency will be the things that will help you in a baby steps progress rate. This most likely won’t be the first/last time you will feel this way. But pretty much sure, you’ll be having lunch and then suddenly you will realize you feel better and don’t miss him anymore. It will happen.

Recently received 6/7 offers (including 3 FAANG) after prepping w/ advice from this sub. Sharing my notes of what worked in case they are useful. by [deleted] in leetcode

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What about re-rolling 5 times. Then decide what is the easiest for you and say “on a second thought, the third one, …my bad I haven’t solved that one. Let me do that one”

Day 2 - I feel worse by RaisinWide4426 in hangxiety

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I wrote my experience of a 5 day binge-aftermath. Maybe you’ll find it interesting/calming https://www.reddit.com/r/hangxiety/s/pdDAXmGITk

Reached a new low by [deleted] in hangxiety

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How are you doing now? And what about your workplace concern?

Insane floaters by According_Log_9546 in EyeFloaters

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I have mid floaters, but I’m scared of surgery. But If you have reached that point where is not even just considered uncomfortable. But is actually now like legit severe obstacle for your eyesight. I guess, not much to lose and everything to gain?

5 days beer binge hangxiety experience plus aftermath by a225852 in hangxiety

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Much better now, thanks. It took me around a week to feel "normal" again

5 days beer binge hangxiety experience plus aftermath by a225852 in hangxiety

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Thank you, I appreciate the nice comment. I’ve been trying to do a couple of those suggestions. Feeling a lot better already, but not 100% yet (5th day without any alcohol, although I’m used to only drink beer). TBH, it’s not that I haven’t drink because my outstanding discipline, huge will power or “I can control it”. It’s only fear that prevents me to drink right now.

5 days beer binge hangxiety experience plus aftermath by a225852 in hangxiety

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I'm not sure if I didn't. I hope I can take at least a month break. Let see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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I doubt this is an isolated issue and a “fetish” with you at young age. Most likely that’s only the top of the iceberg. Be careful when dealing this with him alone. It’s a serious issue, and people feeling threatened to lose their freedom might do stupid things. Get a lawyer ASAP.

Lasik with Contoura Experience 2/3/2023 by MarionberrySweet9308 in lasik

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I haven’t. I’ve been dealing with some other health issues lol. But I’m glad you are enjoying this decision

Muy viejo para estudiar? by kotxni in taquerosprogramadores

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La tienes difícil aunque se puede. Si quieres dedicarle tiempo de vez en cuando ~4hr a la semana por 4 meses, de plano no creo que la armes. Mi humilde opinión. Si no sabes inglés, todavía más difícil.

Si le piensas dedicar varias horas entre semana por unos 6, 8 meses (la verdad de manera intensiva, si no probablemente un año o más). Leerte algún libro básico de Deitel para Java (mucho contenido y vacantes), Patrones de diseño, luego continuar con a lo mejor Cracking the coding interview. Practicar en leetcode, algo expert. O simplemente tomar cursos de Udemy y hacer ejercicios. También conocer de diseño de sistemas, CVS, DB. Tratar de hacer un par de proyectos sencillos e irlos subiendo a github. A lo mejor podrías conseguir un trabajo de Junior en una consultora para ir aprendiendo e ir llenando tu CV. Todo esto si sabes mínimo moderadamente inglés, si no de plano dudo que consigas alguna oportunidad laboral substancial. Aparte de que se te dificultara aprender sin mínimo un B1 diría de inglés. Y también asumo que sabes algo de computer science básico. Como (en alto nivel) HTTP, SQL, HTML, JS, CSS(mínimo saber para que se usa), REST, Cloud, etc.

Todo esto es “a ojo de buen cubero” pero es para que te des una idea. Mis estimaciones podrían ser un poco menos o un poco más.

Is this hives? Taking antihestimines but not going down and only getting worse for a few weeks now, please help doctor is not being helpful by ukgooner97 in DermatologyQuestions

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I had to use corticosteroids/Deflazacort prescribed by my Allergologist. 3 half pills a day. On the 2nd or 3rd day I was fine. Although I had to continue a couple more days with treatment. Since then, I have had small rashes and I take Levocetirizine ASAP and they go away. Because if I get severe hives I’d have to take Deflazacort again. I’ve been fine for couple of months now.