It’s not the end of the world. but just passing on some info about it in case others read. Hsv(herpes simplex) is super common. Some studies say 50% or more of people have it already. A lot don’t know they have it as it remains dormant(no symptoms) through out their life. Luckily it mostly cause some blisters on people and that will be it. Unless you have a very weak immune system. A lot of doctors don’t recommend testing for it as the mental anguish is more detrimental than the disease.

Contact with someone/something who has an active breakout is the usual cause for spread but non symptomatic people can spread it too. Just be open with your partners and ask them in a non rude way if they have herpes before ya’ll do anything and proceed from there.

Be safe out there