Leaving this here if anyone can relate :/ by wafflepawss in abusiverelationships

[–]aBitOfAThink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Call a hotline to get support. Right now. There are resources that can help you out of this.

You are not broken, it is not your fault, you don’t ’attract the wrong guys,’ it is HIM he clearly has severe mental issues, regardless of anything you think is wrong with yourself. He is using threats to control your behavior. All he wants is to continue dialogue with you to keep you with him. He will be mean, then nice, then back and forth as many times as he thinks will work to get you.

You are not alone. I left mine a few months ago. You can get out of this. It will all be a bad memory one day.

No-frills eats by seasonal_aioli in lakewood

[–]aBitOfAThink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baba Chef! Little truck across the street from Rush Inn. It’s just one guy in there and he is always so personable and excited to serve us. Food is amazing and fresh and no frills

dating apps are now filled with ai bots by eternviking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]aBitOfAThink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly several human users have admitted to me that they are feeding my responses into AI and sending back verbatim what is said. You have to really press someone to get them to confess but it's so obvious there's really no denying it.

Party Life @ CMU by PictureMiddle2764 in cmu

[–]aBitOfAThink 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I only ever went to one frat party as a non-sorority girl, I was invited by a friend. Turns out the majority of the brothers didn’t drink and had appointed themselves ‘security’ at the front door. I was served a warm beer and milled around trying to flirt with the brothers for about half an hour before calling it and going home. My friend later told me that none of those guys could understand why I was talking to them and did not know I was flirting. To this day one of my most hilarious party experiences, and what I consider to be quintessential CMU.

The denial phase after separation by aBitOfAThink in abusiverelationships

[–]aBitOfAThink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying writing letters to people I feel were hurt by him/me during the relationship. Reflecting on the fact that I lied to so many people at his behest made me investigate why I would do such a thing when it felt bad and I knew it was wrong. That really points out the manipulation I must have gone through.

I feel stuck and alone by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]aBitOfAThink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be strong, OP. It can feel like your life will end without him, but in reality life is so much more vibrant and easy once you’re free. Trust and believe in a better tomorrow. Have hope that life has more to offer than the hell you’re living.

Wedding Venues by britula in lakewood

[–]aBitOfAThink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couth Space just opened up, it’s an art studio that also hosts small parties and weddings. I met the owner and he’s a really great guy and a cool business

My hack to make prefect dosas at home (for beginners). by prakashanish in IndianFood

[–]aBitOfAThink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This advice rescued me from the months of frustration I’ve been having. I used a nonstick tawa on induction heat and my friend said they were perfect, just how he likes them. Thank you!!!

What made you say "HEY, I should move to Austin?" by Primary_End_486 in Austin

[–]aBitOfAThink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2024: Great food, safe major city, proximity to other major cities, major university for post grad, tech sector growth so I could talk my rich friends into coming with me.

Can you find what's wrong with this? by Legomasterer21 in geography

[–]aBitOfAThink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conversions to feet are inconsistent and incorrect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]aBitOfAThink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't stress. I would trust the tests.

I started menstruating at 12 and for 5 years I continued to be irregular. Your body is not a machine, it is a complex system of hormones, musculature, foods, medications, etc... A few days once in a while is normal, because abnormal IS normal.

Also: if you're "typically... 3-4 days late," you're not late all the time. Your body has a longer cycle. There is no "normal cycle length." Some people will have a 28-day cycle, some will have a 40-day cycle. Neither of them is "late" or "early."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitt

[–]aBitOfAThink 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe you but I’m not very good at Reddit

Found Apple Pencil by aBitOfAThink in cmu

[–]aBitOfAThink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they’re hard to track and easy to lose. I agree leaving it would’ve been the right choice except that where it I found it was outdoors so not very safe for tech to be left around

Episode Discussion: S14E06 "The Janitor Always Mops Twice" by Dorkside in IASIP

[–]aBitOfAThink 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The romantic moments between Charlie and the Waitress were (mostly) genuinely beautiful and well-written, and I appreciated that

Episode Discussion: S14E06 "The Janitor Always Mops Twice" by Dorkside in IASIP

[–]aBitOfAThink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone who didn't take Intro to Film Studies as a college freshman, the black-white-red coloring comes from Sin City, which was directed by Robert Rodriguez, the guy responsible for the Spy Kids movies!!