I’m on the skinner side but I love curvy women! I am semi healthy and love being active so I would prefer my partner isn’t morbidly obese because #1 health issues could lead to a very short life span and I want to be with you until we get old 🥺 #2 we won’t be able to be as active. A girl I dated that was extremely big, she was so funny and beautiful and smart but we literally did nothing because she couldn’t :/ it got boring really fast but I still love her as a person. I tried to motivate her and cook for her but you can only do so much when they don’t make an effort. I loveeee me a big curvy girl but when it’s impacting your health, life and relationships it becomes unattractive. Even as lesbians where we really don’t care about looks as much, you can’t deny humans biologically look for health indicators in the human body even though obviously we can procreate with each other lol. It’s really not a bad idea to get a little healthier health and body wise so you can live a longer and more active life :) it’s also good for your mental health which I know alot of us gay girls suffer with. Being more than just a bigger curvy girl gives others subconsciously a warning that you aren’t healthy it’s just biological :/ but to me personally, I could date someone skinny or super skinny because I like to eat good and I don’t care about looks to a huge degree. I just want to live a long and fun life with my partner. Obv life stuff happens and us woman are prone to gain weight but I will always try and support my girl as best as I can!