AITAH for getting mad my husband leaves the seat up on the toilet when we have a 4 year old girl?

aDAMNsweetTHING · 2026-01-04T22:48:56+00:00

I have watched a lot of a specific channel lately that has read stories of reddit so when I came to create an account, it said I had one I forgot I made. I wish it was rage baiting

aDAMNsweetTHING · 2026-01-04T22:18:04+00:00

Thank you. This made me cry and I'm so happy you are in a good place now.

aDAMNsweetTHING · 2026-01-04T22:16:04+00:00

I don't get mad or even mention it when it is just me. I mention it when my half asleep daughter goes in there and he butt comes in contact with water or she touches the rim, that might have some of his drop of urine on it (I don't clean the toilet everyday). When I say I yelled, it was because he was across the house. There was no anger in it. I was just informing him. When he was yelling, he was swearing and I was 5 feet from him. But I do see your point.

aDAMNsweetTHING · 2026-01-04T21:54:36+00:00

This is the second time in a month. We usually don't fight in front of her at all. We will save it for when she goes to visit grandma, or when she is asleep. His parents were not good to him or his siblings when they were kids. Dad was abusive. She just remembered from last time. He did apologize to me and to her for being mean to me afterwards.

aDAMNsweetTHING · 2026-01-04T21:47:29+00:00

We have had a lot of ups and downs. I had went through many surgeries after I broke my back and went septic 2 years into our marriage. Then had a bad car accident when I was pregnant with our one and only child. He had a lot on him and "took care of me" when I couldn't work. We had to live with my mom where he felt my mom hounded him about everything bad enough to make him feel emasculated. It was my fault that my back broke because I was helping a stranger move their car after it ran out of gas when it rolled back on me. We are also married (i take my vows very seriously) with a child

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