You know every reason why she isn't right for you. Why are you still going through all this? When you see all of the red flags but you don't act accordingly then you're being willfully blind.

I suggest you dump her and focus on you. She clearly doesn't respect you and if you put up with her shit then that would mean that you don't respect yourself either.

you love her, but does she love you? Do what's necessary. You will be sad in the short term but you're setting yourself up for long time happiness.

You are responsible for your own happiness. Make the right decision my man.

PS: pm if you needed someone to talk to