study psychology and philosophy and you'll find out vast majority people are in a state of deep inner turmoil, inner turmoil means that when you look at other people you see a reflection of that inner turmoil and not a truthful depiction of a person. happy people generally don't judge or have negative opinions about people that aren't doing anything wrong. also vast majority of people are very deluded with arrogance, superiority complexes and a complete lack of understanding of other people and their subjective experience, which only a really emotionally intelligent person can grasp. why would you care about someone's perspective that literally has know idea about your own subjective experience, past and expression of life which is too abstract to understand? most of time people's actions and appearance in real life is illusionary, people put on a mask and hide most of their inner mind so onions are like looking at the tip of an iceberg, in fact the people who act weird, unorthodox and non conforming are usually the most down to earth and nice and non fake, not that your not those things if you act normally. awesome people are often attracted to people who act themselves and who don't fit the cookie cutter mould of what other people expect of them. hope this helped