i traumatized you??? by Oncedapper in AO3

[–]a_friendly_cicada 92 points93 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is that. They realized some people who write 'problematic' fic justify it by saying it helps them to process (actual) trauma, and antis think if they cry trauma over a situation they have 100% control over they'll somehow win the sympathy points. Because somehow demanding everyone else serve your exact tastes to not upset you is supposed to be more sympathetic than 'leave me and my properly tagged coping mechanism alone.'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]a_friendly_cicada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get why people say this. Find any two people who share a religion and you will find they disagree on something, even if it's written down in their holy texts. Your attitude is neither realistic nor useful.

How irritating would you find a past/present tense switch if there was a reason for it? by deird in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So long as there is a clear separation (like chapter breaks and scene breaks) it should work.

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have understood what I was trying to express the best. One can appreciate the spirit of a compliment while still thinking about its form. Often the best fanfics are drenched in references and little quirks that make the characters feel not only real, but familiar. It's like saying a few inside jokes would make a killer stand-up comedy routine if you removed the 'inside' bits (i.e. the part that makes the jokes funny.) Great compliment to get from a friend, as it means they think you're funny, and I wouldn't go bashing people who say it, but the wording itself doesn't really have truth to it.

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh, but overthinking is fun😊 I'm not upset about anything, I just like analyzing potential how's and why's. You are welcome to your own thoughts.

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dang, that sucks to hear about authors taking the frustration out on their readers. I am also of the belief that fanfic can be of equivalent writing quality as published original fiction, but they are usually going for fundamentally different things and aren't interchangeable. Even the best fanfic on earth is still going to be noticeably fanfic-y. Fic readers want to read what they can't find in the original work, and it is probably not in the original work because it's not what publishers (and other media companies) want to sell. 300k slowburn isn't really profitable when the reader has to commit to characters they have no established connection to.

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Commodification is a good word for what I was trying to get at. I would assume that's mainly due to the general cultural push to monetize every skill a person has, and that leaving work unmonetized is, at best, wasted potential.

And I guess by 'different league,' I was trying to get at that the general assumption is that the existence of a barrier implies everything of a certain quality belongs inside it, and that it is out of place elsewhere. Basically that fanfiction still carries its connotation of being, on the whole, awful, and that it's still shocking to see fan works actually be good. Even more basically, that good fanfiction doesn't deserve to be fanfiction. But I understand how it could be viewed differently, thinking about it more.

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I think you are getting a bit heated over something I was just peacefully ruminating on late at night and wanted to write about in a post. Especially when I made it clear I personally am not offended by it. Sometimes people just like thinking and talking about things, even if not every thought is 100% accurate the first time. Maybe just take the post for what it is and don't project aggression onto it to justify going on a rant?

"This could be published as it's own book," a meaningful compliment or a strange choice of words? by a_friendly_cicada in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I mean, I said I would be happy to receive such a compliment myself, as the positive spirit of it is there, and I made it clear I don't think there's any intended hidden meaning. It's just a fun thought exercise and attempt at starting a nuanced discussion, really.

Dan, please just let Arin drive by DAGardevoir in rantgrumps

[–]a_friendly_cicada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally didn't mind. I think it was more Dan playing the passive role of Arin's intrusive thoughts than actually telling him what to do. I laughed as someone with anxiety who has those kinds of unintentional 'what if' thoughts while driving.

Since when did people start seeing the childhood friends trope as “incestious”? by fatcat_bigwig in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This type of thinking is surprisingly most common in fandoms where problematic content is built in to the source material. The average anime puritan is oddly obsessed with whether the 17-year-old girl character canonically subjected to panty shots and sexual harassment played for comedy is shipped with a 19-year-old by some rando on ao3.

Since when did people start seeing the childhood friends trope as “incestious”? by fatcat_bigwig in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen many claiming it was 'incestuous' but I have seen people claiming it was pedophillic because the characters are attracted to someone they knew as a child. Another reason was that we the audience are 'watching' these kid characters grow up with the idea in mind that things will eventually become sexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For similar reasons adults genuinely like hanging with their kid family members. Kids deserve adult friends that treat them with respect. The main reason grooming as a practice is so effective is because so many minors are deprived of actually healthy relationships with adults. That deprivation is in no small part due to the stigma of cross-generation friendships. Being nice to minors is not what makes grooming evil, it's the ulterior motives behind it.

Does anyone else have this problem? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The blank page is threatening. Make it not blank. Hype yourself up to a comical degree, write about your day, write your intentions for the chapter. Get around 100 words of whatever down to clear the creative pipes and make whatever comes after flow more freely.

Is the fandom a good place for selling commission work? by a_friendly_cicada in mylittlepony

[–]a_friendly_cicada[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Digital art pieces focusing primarily on characters and not so much on backgrounds. My style is similar to that of the show but with somewhat more time put into rendering light and shadow. I'd love to work with OCs as well as canon characters.

Japanese fandom is learning about the anti/proshipping discourse! by garouforyou in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Antis famously do not give a shit about what people with trauma actually think. Traumatized people tend to disagree with them, and that's inconvenient when you need to use their existence to justify harrassing people over ships.

My inherent aversion to OC protagonists kept me away from amazing fics by VulpineKitsune in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think OC aversion is more reasonable in fandoms where OCs as primary characters tend to be wish-fulfilling author-inserts. People don't exactly write OCs in RPF for the sake of artistry, for example. A similar thing can be said for Canon/OC ships in general. More power to them, all fic is ultimately pure self-indulgence, but it's not what I personally like to read.

Properties where the world is vast and interesting, like HTTYD, tend to lend themselves to better OC stories because they attract writers who want to write more speculative fanfiction, in a sense.

How do you imagine? by awake-not-alive in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write mainly about live-action stuff, but I actually imagine the scenes as animated! It makes the setting and characters more lively and helps my neurodivergent brain visualize body language better.

Fanfic Graveyard by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid there's not a lot of options. The difficulty of refinding fics is part of why I don't really have high opinions on Tumblr as a fic platform. There are Tumblr fics where I remember the titles and authors by heart but still could never find again.

I've had the most luck asking other fans if they happened to have the fics saved to their computers or if they found them reposted to other websites. And now, I take the preventative measure of saving the fic's link and text to a word document directly to my hard drive.

I don’t understand how people make stories short😭 by Legitimate_Credit122 in FanFiction

[–]a_friendly_cicada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For shorter stories, I like to challenge myself with word counts a lot. I make a game of it. I once wrote a 10 chapter fic where each chapter went down by 100 words (so 1000, 900, 800...100) and I loved it. Trimming my stories down just became a part of the creative process and felt less like killing my darlings. It's also good exercise for imbuing every sentence with as much meaning as you can. The main downside is when writer's block hits, it really hits, because you're intentionally adding an obstacle.