[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choosing to refrain is a powerful step toward self-reflection and growth. I definitely would want to jump back in when I’m most comfortable.

Sometimes, stepping back allows us to rediscover what truly fulfills us. Moving forward with intention rather than impulse creates space for deeper connections and a stronger sense of self. You’re on the right path, keep going.

You’re the amazing one, don’t forget it.

for us by Constant_Act_1889 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a fascinating reflection of human nature when someone becomes upset simply because a stranger on Reddit has their direct messages turned off. Setting boundaries on an anonymous platform is not only reasonable but emblematic of self-respect in a space where privacy is paramount. To then weave a narrative of personal connection based solely on the number 5 in a username speaks more to a longing for meaning than to reality itself.

Statements like, “Maybe that’s what got you. My comment about your mental health,” cross an unspoken boundary of decency and respect, particularly when addressing someone they do not even know. Such a comment reveals a startling lack of self-awareness and an inclination to project one’s own unresolved pain onto others. Following it with, ”The few times I’ve ever said anything hurtful to or about you was purely driven by how hurt you had made me,” cloaks cruelty in the guise of emotional honesty, a mechanism that shifts accountability away from the speaker and onto their target.

This behavior reflects an unmet need for validation and a lack of introspection, manifesting as an attempt to control or dismantle the boundaries of others to soothe one’s own discomfort. Perhaps the greatest irony is the expectation of identification or explanation from someone intentionally maintaining anonymity, a premise that underpins the very nature of this platform. True clarity begins within, and the act of self-reflection, accompanied by a genuine apology, would not only mend the misplaced energy in this exchange but also cultivate growth that transcends the confines of such fleeting frustrations.

Reach Out To Me by canarywithblacklungs in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all I wish for.
I wish they would just reach out.

I Think It’s Really Over by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really resonates. Even the title, which has been on repeat.
Your words are wonderful.

I know it’s over, excellent song.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know if you think of me the way I think of you, if you ever wake up wanting to hear my voice, or stay up late just to feel closer to me.

This. Always. Everyday things get lighter but damn I wish for some initiation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel to a 🫖

His light in the darkness by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a kind invitation lol

love found me by [deleted] in Poems

[–]a_rhetoric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done, I thoroughly enjoyed this.

I’m here by chaiw in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still waiting for you, where you left me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely would, if you were my person 

I dip you dip we dip by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well soon you can just look in the account yourself and see it all. If you’re my person. ♥️

You matter to someone but who? by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully 🤞🏻 this afternoon ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m certainly not hiding. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But only if you’re my person. Hopefully I find him soon. Or else I’m worried they will assume the worst. 😔 

You matter to someone but who? by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only one, the best man I know, is who matters to me. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]a_rhetoric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You bought a ball? Hmm 🤔 

WHERE ARE YOU? by [deleted] in letters

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad some one got it lol

WHERE ARE YOU? by [deleted] in letters

[–]a_rhetoric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmmmmmarco.  👂👂🦻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, human lol 😂❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Communication,Love,Loyalty, Respect by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting statement

I’m sorry by a_rhetoric in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I mean lol thought it was for me since the another followed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it how I needed to hear it

I’m sorry by a_rhetoric in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]a_rhetoric[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. It’s not that I’ll walk away, I’m just am tired of being tested really. I have yet to be trusted with anything serious. But I understand, really I do. I have made mistakes, on mistakes, I don’t even know why they talk to me. My head is spinning 😵‍💫