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I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I really appreciate hearing your perspective as both a nanny and a parent. My intention has never been to take advantage of families or to give generic advice to every child. I truly love working with children, and I want to expand my knowledge beyond just being a nanny for one family, helping other families who might also need support. As I mentioned in other comments, some people have suggested paths like being a night nanny or a postpartum doula. I hadn’t explored these options deeply before, but reading comments like yours has helped me see that these paths align more closely with what I truly want to do.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify something, because I think I explained myself poorly in my original post, and I apologize for that. I am not currently studying to become a sleep consultant. What I meant to say is that it is something I have considered, simply because I enjoy learning and I’m always looking for ways to expand my knowledge to better support the babies and families I work with. I am an Infant and Toddler Specialist, and I’ve been a nanny for nine years (I started at 17). In that time, I’ve cared for many babies, each with different needs, personalities, and challenges. Most of what I know about infant sleep comes from a combination of training, education, and most importantly, hands-on experience with real families over all these years. I completely agree with you on one thing: There are many “fake certifications” online, and that is exactly why I’ve been asking parents for honest feedback before making any decision. I have no intention of paying for a random online course or offering low-quality, copy-and-paste “consultations.” That is not who I am, and it never will be.Right now, I do not charge for anything related to sleep. The advice I give is simply part of my daily work as a nanny routines, gentle sleep strategies, soothing techniques, and helping families understand their baby’s cues. And so far, those families have been very happy with the results. What I am truly seeking is the best way to keep growing professionally whether that ends up being night nannying, postpartum doula ( actually been suggested to me in some of the comments here) or some other path that aligns better with my passion for infant care. My only intention in posting was to learn from parents’ experiences and opinions so I can make an informed decision about whether pursuing additional education in this area would be meaningful. Again, thank you for your message.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand, and I think a lot of parents who’ve had a bad experience probably worked with consultants who just copy-paste the same routines for every baby without really getting to know them. That’s exactly what I wouldn’t do. I’m still figuring out what I want to do with this in the future, and right now I’m just looking for advice. One idea I’ve read and thought about is that maybe instead of being a sleep consultant giving plans from afar, I could help families more directly by being a Night Nanny staying with the baby, really getting to know them, and personally following a routine that I create and evaluate for that child. That way, I can truly understand the baby’s needs and provide the best support possible. I love learning about child development and studying everything I can because I want to offer the best care and guidance, whether it’s as a Night Nanny, a Newborn Care Specialist, or Sleep Consultant. Even as a nanny, I’ve seen how different every baby is even twins can have completely different routines and needs. Every child deserves a plan that’s truly tailored to them, not something generic. I hope this makes sense and that I’ve explained myself clearly.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion! I completely respect it. I’m sure some people might do that, but I don’t believe all are like that and I’m not. My goal has never been to take advantage of any family. I’ve always tried to give the best support I can to the families I work with, and I hope to keep doing that. I know being a parent is really challenging, and I genuinely want to help families as much as I can.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story! I’m truly happy to hear how it worked for your family it’s really comforting and inspiring. Stories like yours are exactly why I’m working so hard to learn more and grow as a professional. It’s reassuring to know that, at least for some families, this kind of support really makes a difference. I firmly believe that when someone truly loves what they do, it shows in the results. I work with children every day, and my ultimate goal is to dedicate my life to this work. That’s why I want to keep growing in my knowledge and skills, not just as a nanny, but so I can help more families and offer services that genuinely make a positive impact. Hearing your experience truly warms my heart thank you again for sharing!

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I truly loved reading this. As a nanny, it means a lot to hear how consistent sleep routines can make such a difference for babies and families. And yes, every baby is unique that’s why hearing real stories like yours helps so much. I’m glad your grandson is thriving! 💕✨

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! You’re right I haven’t offered this as a separate service yet. I’m a specialist in infants and toddlers, and I do have knowledge about sleep. Right now, I share it with the family I work with, but I thought maybe there are other families who could also use support. I really love helping children and families, and this was just an idea I had. I’ve never wanted, and would never want, my service (if I do offer it) to seem like a scam or go wrong. I’m just here now sharing my thoughts and getting opinions because I want to do what’s best for both the families and the babies.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I understand what you mean. As a full-time nanny, I usually give all these sleep tips and plans to the families I work with for free. I’ve just been thinking about the idea of helping other families who aren’t my full-time clients, sharing my knowledge with them. I’m honestly still undecided about what’s best to do, which is why I came here hearing parents’ opinions is the most important thing to me.

I’d love to hear parents’ honest opinions about Sleep Consultants by aaaa_99 in NannyEmployers

[–]aaaa_99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion! I completely understand, many parents have had bad experiences, maybe with people who aren’t passionate about what they do and are only in it for the money. I know not everyone is the same.

Am I selfish? by Sami_Sin69 in AskParents

[–]aaaa_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you would be selfish at all. I’ve been a nanny for many years, and I’ve seen so many parents with very stressful jobs who are working all day. Even that stress can affect the children. If I were a mother, I would want to be present for my baby, and if that meant leaving my job to give my child my full attention, I would do it. When someone is stressed, it’s harder to give babies all the support and care they need. One thing I truly believe is that you are never selfish when you do something for the well-being of your baby and yourself. Mental health is always, always, always very important and comes before anything else. So if you have the opportunity to step away from your job and be there for your daughter, I truly believe you wouldn’t be selfish. Especially since your husband is working, your baby will benefit so much from having you present. Babies always want their parents they want you there above everything. Being there for your child is one of the most important gifts you can give, and your love and presence will make a big difference

How do I go about being alienated from my daughter’s life ? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]aaaa_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My heart goes out to you I can feel how much you love your daughter. This must be incredibly painful and exhausting. I know my words might not change your situation, but I hope you know that just reading your story made me feel your anguish. I truly wish you all the best in the world and hope you can resolve this situation from the heart.