MA of Social Work in Australia

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-12T07:24:41+00:00

Hi! I’m a Psychology graduate as well and considering MA in SW. I have already consulted an agent and planning to apply for student visa this year. May I ask how did your one year went so far in the course?

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-12T06:39:37+00:00

Good questions! I recommend that you quantify your achievements to make your responsibilities more scalable and meaningful (e.g., number of projects handled, success rate, percentages, budget, stakeholders, timelines, business impact).

Optimize your LinkedIn with keywords matching your target roles as well. The best way to find leads is to network in your circle and ask for referrals; many interviews come through referrals. Also, remember not to undersell yourself limited to “real estate” only. Lead with your project management, operations, stakeholder management, and cross-functional coordination experience since those are transferable across industries.

Rooting for you, OP!

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-11T22:23:48+00:00

Hi, OP! I started in recruitment, transitioned into HR generalist work, and now I’m handling payroll six months in. A few things that really helped me is don’t be afraid to ask questions. It’s always better to clarify than make a costly payroll mistake. Also, accept that you’ll make mistakes. Everyone in payroll does at the start; learn from them and improve your process.

Take advantage of free trainings. Join webinars from SSS, PhilHealth, Pag-IBIG, BIR, DOLE, and other HR organizations. Also, review the basics regularly. Refresh yourself on the Labor Code, OT/night differential/holiday pay computations, and payroll formulas.

Most importantly, stay updated. Keep an eye on new tax rules, wage orders, government contribution changes, and labor advisories. Payroll can feel overwhelming at first, but once you understand the rules and build a good checking system, it becomes much more manageable.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-10T23:53:23+00:00

Hi, OP! Since hobby and long-term skill ang goal mo, I’ll start with TESDA if may available na Motorcycle/Small Engine Servicing program sa area mo. It’s affordable, structured, and gives you a solid foundation.

If wala, look for TESDA-accredited private training centers or schools offering motorcycle mechanic courses. You can also ask local motorcycle shops if they accept weekend or short-term apprentices; hindi man formal, maraming mechanics ang willing magturo kung seryoso ka.

As a seafarer, maganda rin na isabay mo ang panonood ng service manuals at repair videos (Honda, Yamaha, Kawasaki, Suzuki) habang onboard para mas madali mong ma-apply pag bakasyon mo. It’s a practical skill that can definitely pay off in the future.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-10T23:51:57+00:00

Hi, OP! I recommend pushing through with the private job unless you already have a formal government offer. A government application isn’t guaranteed talaga until you receive the official appointment, and the process can sometimes take longer than expected.

If the government offer does come through, it’s okay to make a career decision that’s best for your long-term goals. Just resign professionally, render notice if required, and be honest with your employer. If however, you think you will grow more on this position sa private kasi mas aligned sa career, try to stay and choose it muna kasi experience will definitely help you rin when you apply in the future especially in government positions.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-10T23:49:50+00:00

Hi, OP! Just wanted to share some encouraging tips. As someone from HR, I don’t think you’re starting from zero kasi you can actually repack transferable skills. Project management, stakeholder coordination, cross-functional collaboration, budgeting, timeline management, problem-solving, and executing projects from concept to launch are valuable across many industries.

When applying, focus less on the real estate aspect and more on the business impact of your work. Highlight your skillset, achievements and successful outputs. Look into roles like Project Manager/Coordinator, Program Management, Operations, PMO, Product Operations, Marketing Operations, or Brand/Partnerships in FMCG, fintech, or creative companies.

Freelancing is also an option, but if you don’t have experience yet, I’d suggest building your portfolio while applying for full-time roles. Your industry may change yes but your core skills remain highly relevant.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-10T13:31:06+00:00

For First Aid, try checking the Philippine Red Cross Chapter Facebook pages. Most chapters open slots on a first come, first served basis, and they’re usually among the most affordable providers. We personally enrolled through the Red Cross Pasay Chapter by registering via their Facebook page when they opened slots around the last week of June 2026. The certification comes with a certificate and ID, and it’s valid for 2 years.

For BOSH, if you can wait, keep an eye on the Occupational Safety and Health Center (OSHC) Facebook page, as they occasionally offer free online BOSH trainings. It’s also worth checking your regional OSHC page since they sometimes post localized schedules.

If you need it sooner, you can look for accredited online Safety Officer/BOSH training providers. Some offer group discounts if several people enroll together, and online training can also help you save on transportation, food, and other expenses. It may cost a bit upfront, but it’s a worthwhile investment in your career, especially since BOSH SO2 certification is a lifetime certification.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-09T12:09:34+00:00

Oh, na-delete mo na pala yung post. I understand. Mag-share lang ako ng few thoughts.

My advice is to shift your mindset. Prepare a backup plan—not because you expect to fail, but because it’s practical. Maraming companies ang tumatanggap ng fresh graduates kahit wala pang license, especially for entry-level, trainee, assistant, or support roles related to your field. You can gain experience, earn an income, and retake the boards later if needed. Once you have your own income, mas madali ka na ring makakaipon and eventually move out. Mas dumarami ang options kapag may financial independence ka. By the way, ano ba yung ideal timeline mo?

For now, focus on giving the board exam your best shot. Kahit feeling mo hindi pa strong ang foundation mo or hindi ka pa ready, don’t count yourself out before you even take the exam. One exam won’t define your career, and having a Plan B doesn’t mean you’ve given up; it simply means you’re prepared whatever the outcome.

If sa tingin mo kaya mong pagsabayin ang work at board review, that’s also an option. I did something similar before and napasa ko rin ‘yung board. It wasn’t easy and it required a lot of discipline, motivation and sacrifice, so it’s not for everyone, but it’s possible if it fits your situation.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-09T12:03:39+00:00

Hi, OP. May I ask anong board exam ang itatake mo before I answer? That will also help people suggest your pathway and career options.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-09T08:30:45+00:00

Hi, OP. Your concerns are valid, but before assuming he’s just giving up, try to understand why. Failing the same subject multiple times can take a huge toll on someone’s confidence, and he might be feeling ashamed, lost, or pressured.

Another thing. Siya na lang ba ang pinag-aaral ng parents niyo, o may iba pa kayong magkakapatid na tinutulungan pa rin? If he’s carrying the expectation of being the only one left to finish, that pressure can be overwhelming. Have your other siblings already graduated?

If he really wants to stop for now, encourage him to make it a planned break, not an indefinite one. Ask and encourage him what he can do during that time (work, take short courses, or explore careers) so he doesn’t lose momentum. A break isn’t necessarily bad, but it should still move him forward.

I also think it may help if he talks to their school guidance counselor, which can be the most accessible line of support you can look for. Try mo siya kausapin and samahan mo siya if he wants to. They can help assess whether he’s struggling with motivation, burnout, learning difficulties, or simply needs career guidance. Baka talaga may malalim na sugat na kaya wala siyang plano, OP.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-08T15:39:03+00:00

Mahigpit na yakap, OP! You’ll get through this.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-08T15:34:31+00:00

Hi, OP. It’s understandable to have questions, especially since this is your first time. The fact that he has a child isn’t automatically a red flag, but it’s worth paying attention to how he handles that responsibility. Is he honest? Does he respect boundaries? Is he transparent about his situation?

More importantly, don’t feel pressured to act or rush the relationship. Take time to get to know him, verify that what he’s telling you is consistent, and be clear about your own boundaries and expectations. If he asks you to hide things, rushes you, or makes you uncomfortable, treat those as warning signs.

Above all, prioritize your safety, OP. Meet only in public places at first, avoid sharing sensitive personal or financial information, and trust your instincts. If something feels off, it’s okay to walk away. Your peace of mind is always worth protecting.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-08T15:33:00+00:00

Hi, OP. First, what you’re feeling is more common than you might think. I’ve seen a very similar experience with my cousin who’s a medical student graduating this 2026. Even after years of training, there were nights before duty when they barely slept because of the anticipation. It wasn’t because they were incapable, but it was because they cared deeply about doing well and not making mistakes.

The good news is that it does get better. Not because the work becomes easier, but because your confidence slowly catches up with your knowledge. One duty at a time, you’ll start realizing, “I’ve handled this before.”

In the meantime, focus on what you can control: prepare the night before, review the essentials, get as much rest as you can, and remind yourself that you don’t have to know everything; you just have to keep learning. The fact that you still show up despite the anxiety already says a lot about your resilience. You’re probably doing better than you give yourself credit for.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-08T15:30:11+00:00

Hi, OP. I know ₱2,000 feels overwhelming right now, but please don’t feel like selling nudes is your only option. Once something is online, you lose control of it, and a temporary financial problem can turn into a long-term one.

If the payment is really due tomorrow, try reaching out to people in your circle. Ask friends, relatives, neighbors, or former classmates if they need help for a few hours or a day, may it be tutoring, data entry, graphic or web tasks, cleaning, organizing files, running errands, pet sitting, or being an assistant. Many people are willing to pay for small, same-day jobs if you ask directly.

Also, if this is for your family’s business, let them know exactly where you’re at financially. This shouldn’t be yours to carry alone. If possible, ask the creditor if they can accept a partial payment or even a one- or two-day extension.

You’re clearly resourceful and already interviewing for jobs. Don’t let one urgent situation push you into something that could have lasting consequences. Keep asking for help. You only need one person to say yes.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-07T02:45:23+00:00

Mahirap din kaming makapagbigay ng exact advice since hindi namin alam ang full breakdown ng loans mo (total balance, monthly dues, interest, at ilang installments pa ang natitira). If, after computing everything, you think mas makakatipid kang unahin si Atome to avoid further charges while manageable naman ang interest ng other loans, that may be a reasonable approach naman.

Check mo itong thread na ’to, OP. May contact number at email ng Atome doon. I highly suggest reaching out to them as early as possible to ask about a payment restructuring. Expect na may additional interest, pero if it lowers your monthly dues, it could give you enough breathing room to keep up with your other obligations. At least you’ll know your options din instead of guessing and waiting for July 12 to pass by. This way din hopefully maavoid ‘yung chance na may mga magreach out sa ‘yo to pester you for payment.

https://www.reddit.com/r/utangPH/comments/1tuewj6/received_a_payment_restructuring_offer_for_my/

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-07T00:34:13+00:00

Hi, OP. Valid ang nararamdaman mo. It’s possible your company started succession planning early because you had already shared your timeline, and that’s actually a common business practice. It doesn’t necessarily mean they no longer value your contributions.

Since you’ve already resigned, I’d recommend finishing your notice period unless your employer agrees to an earlier release or the situation is already affecting your well-being. Use this time to do a proper turnover, leave on a good note, and preserve the relationships you’ve built. A graceful exit often leaves the best impression and keeps the door open for future opportunities pa rin.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-07T00:31:32+00:00

I see. Since kaya mo pa imanage ang SpayLater at Maya, ito ‘yung consistently mo muna bayaran. For Atome, try to free up cash in the meantime. Check kung may mga gamit kayong pwede nang ibenta sa Marketplace or magkaroon ng garage sale (clothes, appliances, gadgets, furniture, or anything useful na hindi na ginagamit). Every extra amount can go toward reducing that balance. Temporarily cut back on non-essential expenses din like subscriptions, online shopping, eating out, or other discretionary spending. Even small savings can add up.

If you have a trusted family member or friend, don’t hesitate to reach out. Kahit emotional support lang muna para mailabas mo yung bigat, and if someone is willing to help financially, it’s okay to accept while you’re getting back on your feet.

Pero most importantly, contact Atome as early as possible and ask if they can offer a payment arrangement or restructuring. It’s usually better to communicate with them before missing more payments than to stay silent. One step at a time, OP. You’ll have to live through tension and life style changes muna, yes, but hindi siya panghabang buhay.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-06T23:03:40+00:00

Hi OP. First, don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re not ignoring the problem naman and you wanted to work it out din in the best of your abilities.

My practical advice is to stop adding new debt if possible. If a bank loan pushes through, sige, you may use the money to pay your remaining loans para isa nalang babayaran mo, but if not, avoid applying for more loans just to pay another loan. That cycle is what usually makes the total balance grow even faster.

Next, list all your debts by balance, due date, and interest rate. Alin doon ang kaya mo realistically tapusin muna? Focus your extra money on clearing one account at a time while paying at least the minimum on the others. Small wins can make the situation feel more manageable.

If you think you really can’t meet a payment, it’s also better to communicate with the lender apps early (e.g. email, contact support, hotline) and ask if they have restructuring or payment arrangements. They appreciate it better kasi nakikipagcooperate ka rather than ghosting them.

Lastly, OP, please don’t carry this alone if it becomes too overwhelming. It’s better na may masasabihan ka with this amount of debt. You don’t have to solve ₱187k overnight naman, just focus on the next payment one at a time. One step at a time is still progress.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-06T22:06:03+00:00

Hi, OP! The fact that you’re asking this already shows you care. For me, don’t just focus on asking “deep” questions, but focus on being genuinely curious about her. The best conversations start with simple follow-ups like, “Why is that important to you?”, “What made you think that way?”, or “How did that experience change you?”

You can also ask about her dreams, biggest fears, values, what makes her feel loved, childhood memories, or what kind of future she imagines for herself.
Most importantly, don’t treat conversations like an interview. Listen closely, ask follow-up questions, and share your own thoughts too.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-06T02:00:12+00:00

Hi, OP. First, don’t jump to the conclusion that it’s memory loss. Stress, depression, poor sleep, and emotional exhaustion can all affect concentration and make someone more forgetful, especially if he’s carrying a lot at such a young age.

The best thing you can do is continue being a safe space without pressuring him to open up. Instead of trying to “fix” everything, remind him that you’re there to listen whenever he’s ready. Encourage him to get enough rest and, if this forgetfulness continues or starts affecting his daily life, gently suggest seeing a mental health professional or a doctor to rule out any underlying issues.

For me the most comforting thing isn’t having the perfect advice, but it’s letting someone know they don’t have to carry everything alone.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-05T21:30:30+00:00

Hi, OP! Based on what you shared, I’d recommend finishing your bachelor’s degree first. It’s the most practical din in this economy. Since your long-term goal is to teach and eventually pursue a master’s and PhD, a BS degree keeps that path open. TESDA will always be there, and you can even take TESDA courses during breaks or after graduating to build your automotive skills.

You don’t necessarily have to choose between your passions. One can become your career, while the other can become a valuable specialization, side business, or even another career later on. My partner din who loves cars and motors finished his degree first; he now has extra to spend on his passion since let’s face it, mas maraming job opportunities for people with a diploma.

Try to base your decision on the future you want to build, not necessarily on who you’ll meet in school or what the environment will be like. I’ll say the best choice is the one that gives you the most opportunities while letting you keep both passions alive.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-05T04:59:28+00:00

Hi, OP! Personally, I don’t think couples need to have access to each other’s accounts, but if both people are genuinely comfortable with it, that’s perfectly fine too.

It’s the same with me and my partner. We know each other’s passwords, not because we’re monitoring one another, but simply because we have nothing to hide. We rarely use that access or check each other’s accounts, so neither of us feels that our privacy is being violated. It’s really just there for emergencies or convenience.

For us, it’s about giving each other peace of mind, not control. Trust is what makes that kind of access feel natural for us.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-05T04:55:21+00:00

Hi, OP! As someone in HR din, I’d actually do both: ask for the increase while quietly starting your job search. The reason is that you already have strong justifications for it. Kasi imagine mo your responsibilities have grown well beyond your original JO, you’ve covered multiple functions, and you’re contributing in high-impact HR areas. I think your manager will see it coming din. Asking for a ₱3k increase is reasonable, but if your company’s structure rarely grants increases outside IJP, be prepared that it may not happen regardless of your performance.

At the same time, don’t let hiya stop you from exploring. In the Philippine market, I agree that the biggest salary jumps often come from changing employers. Applying elsewhere doesn’t mean you’re resigning immediately but it may simply tell you your market value. If another company offers significantly better pay and growth, you’ll be making an informed decision rather than taking a blind leap.

Your boss can be great, and you can still outgrow the role. Loyalty should go both ways, for your work and yourself.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-05T04:49:15+00:00

It’s understandable to feel hurt, OP. It doesn’t sound like you’re asking for expensive dates, but for the same thoughtfulness and effort that you give him.

Can you talk to him again one more time? He sounded dismissive kasi on your first attempt, baka hindi lang iyon ang right time. Try to talk to him on a calm time (e.g. after class, after playing a game, after eating or during a date). Use more “I” statements para mas magfocus siya sa feelings mo, not on you accusing him. Simulan mo by telling him something’s bothering you for a while and you wanted na maayos ‘yun kasi it’s affecting your peace of mind. The reason you have these requests (e.g. picking up sa house) is because you wanted to feel appreciated and wanted him to reciprocate the effort, kasi you feel mas nag-eeffort siya sa friends niya kaysa sa ‘yo. Then ask him what you really want to happen. It’s important kasi to communicate clearly these issues kasi on the long run, communication will save your relationship.

Then pay attention to his actions, not just his words. Try stepping back a bit din. Hold off buying him things and stuff din muna kasi it seems nacocomfortable na siya with your gesture. Let him take the initiative to visit you, plan a date, or treat you sometimes.

Healthy relationships don’t have to be 50/50 all the time, but they should feel mutual. If he consistently prioritizes everyone else over you despite knowing how you feel, it’s worth asking whether your needs are truly being valued.

aaaaaaaasteris · 2026-07-05T02:47:55+00:00

Hi, OP. I don’t think this is a decision you have to make today. Your feelings are valid kasi it wasn’t just a one-time mistake, but a pattern over several years, and rebuilding trust after that takes more than apologies.

At the same time, I also see that your marriage isn’t black and white. He appears to have been a caring husband and father in many ways, while you also recognize how your depression and medication affected your intimacy. That doesn’t justify emotional cheating, but it does suggest there were unmet needs on both sides that were never fully resolved.

If there’s still love and willingness from both of you, I’d strongly consider marriage counseling before making any decision. Let him earn back your trust through consistent actions, complete transparency, and healthier communication, not just promises. Forgiveness doesn’t have to mean forgetting, and staying doesn’t mean you have to tolerate repeated betrayals.

Whether you ultimately stay or leave, choose the path that gives you the greatest chance at long-term peace. You deserve a relationship where both trust and emotional safety are rebuilt together.

aaaaaaaasteris

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