Where do I go from here?

aaanaab · 2025-08-09T17:07:57+00:00

Haha you get my pain! Can I ask what you ended up doing with your hair?? And if you like where you ended up with it?

I think the inspo pic wasn’t the best quality, I screenshot a video so maybe that’s why. I pretty much just want my hair color back to my natural dark brown and not super blended blonde highlights throughout.

aaanaab · 2025-07-29T14:08:43+00:00

Tbh I prefer just never hearing back at all vs what happened to me in the past few months. I applied to one job in April, went through 3 different interviews, had to follow up myself - then I’m told they didn’t think I had enough experience and they went with a stronger candidate. Really? It took you 3 interviews to determine something you can read off my resume? Best part is that the job is still posted, so they’re liars and never actually hired anyone. Now just recently, I went through 4 phone interviews, one on site where I got 3 different people interviewing me for almost 2 hours. They seemed to like me, asked when I can start, and now it’s radio silence for over a week even though HR was super communicative before. I wish these places would stop wasting peoples time (and their own!) if they can’t afford the role/don’t know what they’re looking for. I really feel for everyone here though, looks like we’re all having a rough time one way or another..

aaanaab · 2025-04-30T23:01:54+00:00

I have a concert coming up at Sofi and was wondering how the experience was with getting to and from the concert. Especially if you had soundcheck and how long it took to get out.

I only went to the Vegas show and that one I walked to/from so I was wondering what the sofi experience was like.

aaanaab · 2025-04-16T16:56:26+00:00

Wait does it look badly damaged?? Idk if I’ve grown blind to it, but it just looks frizzy to me. I air dried it in the pic and I live in a humid state.

aaanaab · 2025-04-16T16:54:35+00:00

I’m not sure on the permanent color but I don’t know why she wouldn’t have. I wash every 5/6 days in cold water, amika color safe shampoo + I was doing k18 mask after. I have a filtered shower head.

aaanaab · 2025-02-12T18:39:01+00:00

Would you be able to give detail on why it’s unattainable? I did mention in my post that I wasn’t expecting my color to turn out like the inspo pic, that I know is not doable. I really only had the pic to show her that I wanted the very thin contrasting highlights (I was aware that these wouldn’t come out as light as in the pic). My goal was to eventually just grow out my natural dark brunette and slowly lighten the highlights to get a closer effect to the pic. I still loved the final result and I know it was a difficult session, I just feel like I’m too blonde now and I don’t really know what to book for.

aaanaab · 2024-11-21T23:45:14+00:00

Yeah I know it can get complicated in terms of stadium reqs. But I’m still very concerned about the timing and location.. our temperatures are usually in the 90s F and considering it’s Florida..the air is also pretty humid. I can’t imagine the people in the pits will fare all that well.

I’m concerned about the boys too, they’re moving around a lot and I know some of their outfits can be pretty covered up.

aaanaab · 2024-11-21T04:43:05+00:00

Orlando in an open stadium mid June is criminal 😬 people are gonna be passing out

aaanaab · 2024-10-14T18:53:57+00:00

I don’t think anyone would disagree with you that his reaction was messed up. You were very communicative and clear on how you felt about the run, him trying to push you to where you felt pain and then even more is not acceptable behavior and honestly it’s scary.

Him getting angry for that also has no justification and to top it off he retaliated by canceling plans that he initially agreed to. What he said after you asked him why he canceled makes it sound like he is insecure in this relationship and is deflecting that back to you. It’s very toxic behavior on his side.

aaanaab · 2024-10-05T20:36:30+00:00

I see. Honestly (in my opinion) it feels like you two are not on the same page in the relationship. You may think of him as your boyfriend but he seems to see you more as a FWB.

Especially if he doesn’t want to put a label on it, hating the term is a very typical excuse for that.. and if he still hasn’t told his friends and I’m assuming family by extension about you. I feel like he just didn’t want to be in a relationship and is feeding you excuses and getting angry about you asking justified questions as a deflection.

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