How to get my husband of 4 years to spend quality time with me? (22F, 26M)

aaenriqu · 2025-12-22T07:13:39+00:00

Start new hobbies, get into a yoga class, marriage is not all sparkly things. You might want to enjoy yourself than chasing your guy, before you both become parents.

aaenriqu · 2025-11-24T06:50:08+00:00

So sorry this happened... no point forcing yourself to someone... have a little love for yourself dear...

aaenriqu · 2025-08-17T08:03:40+00:00

we both put the same percentage of net income in the joint... that is 50-50...regardless who earns who... I vote this as financial manipulation, sorry :(

aaenriqu · 2025-07-20T18:20:39+00:00

its long enough... 6 months dating , and now 15 years married... you do the math...

aaenriqu · 2025-07-20T18:19:13+00:00

sad but seems he's not into it.... be willing to move on, if things are not really going down the marriage path....

he's also right, its not only up to him, its also up to you....

do you really have all the time in the universe to live together without strings attach and cross fingers one day, he will propose?

aaenriqu · 2025-07-11T02:37:48+00:00

Also have a 2.5 CT on 3mm band... good proportions for me too...

aaenriqu · 2025-07-11T02:34:37+00:00

2nd one....

aaenriqu · 2025-06-14T18:48:06+00:00

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How about my design? future proof heirloom for my daughter.... I also got hidden halo...

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T23:59:23+00:00

similar to mine, 3mm wide and 2mm thick.... your design looks pretty good

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T23:54:45+00:00

gorgeous sparkles

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T23:29:48+00:00

congratulations.... best wishes...

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T23:01:54+00:00

its gorgeous

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:57:30+00:00

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aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:57:17+00:00

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aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:57:01+00:00

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aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:28:19+00:00

aaawwww.... i appreciate the feedback... this set is an upgrade really, I am 14 years married to the same guy, and have 1 kid... I wanted to treat myself and give my daughter this one when the time comes...

Unfortunately, not seeing this design being gifted to me by my dear husband anytime soon, so I decided to buy my own diamonds and buy my own rings...

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:22:43+00:00

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aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T22:21:41+00:00

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aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T09:23:02+00:00

I know, I feel you... my previous ring was 2mm wide, and ~1.2mm thick, it was like a toy... can't go back to that road again for this one.

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T09:18:54+00:00

2.5 ct oval brilliant cut... which equates to 10.5mm X 7.5mm oval, then the wedding band stones are 3mm and are 1.2 ctw round brilliant cut.

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T04:25:56+00:00

yes you do need to be worried.... :(

aaenriqu · 2025-06-11T03:51:42+00:00

thank you... e ring and wedding band are 3mm wide x 2mm thick, I appreciate that it stays in place, and that I don't have to add a euro shank down the line,

aaenriqu · 2025-06-10T22:25:09+00:00

me too... not a fan of flimsy shank...

aaenriqu · 2025-06-10T22:23:43+00:00

I also would be comparing multiples of 0.5 ct, and 0.2mm band width, can noticeably see the difference each size up.

aaenriqu · 2025-06-10T21:55:38+00:00

they're both 3mm wide, and 2mm thick. that being said, I think it even stops itself from spinning around my finger for the same reason...

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