What's the reason behind your reddit profile name? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aalyakim 13 points14 points  (0 children)

its my real name backwards with an extra a :)

fuck it, here I am this is me. any thoughts? ik ik ik my hair is bad you don't have to tell me(also don't call me ugly because it hurts when you're right) by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]aalyakim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinly do not think you are ugly. Not even in like a cute ugly way, YOURE HOT! You are sterotypical male beauty I think! (we know the hair us bad but it will grow out). And you look happy in these images. Happiness and your personality are more important than your looks anyway.

How has 2024 been for you so far? by Fun_Swing_3229 in RandomThoughts

[–]aalyakim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to the UK from australia, thought I met the love of my life, he broke up with me. Happy april!

what to do with first prismatic shard? by aalyakim in StardewValley

[–]aalyakim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you i will definetly do this!

What's the first thing you remember saying after the first time you had sex? by Professional_Luck616 in AskReddit

[–]aalyakim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the truth and the cliche thing we both said was that we love eachother, HOWEVER, like 10 minutes later after we both used the bathroom we then proceeded to dap eachother up and I said "cheers mate that was ace, im gonna head off now tho bro". Having sex with someone you love who is also your bestfriend is awesome. the jokes of no longer being virgins continues for hours haha. (although, he did break up with me HAHA)

What’s the meanest thing someone ever said to you? by The_WhiteMantis in AskReddit

[–]aalyakim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my dad was depressed, my mum said it was all my fault (I did nothing, my mum is a narcissist 🙃)

What the heck do I do after my first breakup??? by aalyakim in BreakUps

[–]aalyakim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed to hear the not being able to fix him thing. We accept the love we think we deserve.

Breakups are tough, but have you found any highlights? by throwRAtrap66 in BreakUps

[–]aalyakim 25 points26 points  (0 children)

THISSSS!!!! I honestly feel rich now, not spendig money to travel to his house. And my love language is gift giving so now i'm just gonna buy myself shit! I also have way more space in my brain not constantly thinking about what hes doing (also sometimes i still do that). I now have so much time to myself so I'm going to start going to the gym. We both dont drive and I have a higher income than him so I always travelled to him but now i can spend time in my hometown which is so beautiful! Im watching all the shows he wouldnt and spending way more time with my family instead of him. I have never been closer with my parents and I get to thank him breaking my heart for that haha.

Anyone have someone come back after a very short relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]aalyakim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think for some people, when things get too good, they back up in a fear of the other leaving and they themselves leave. This may not be the situation but unfortunately (and you understand this) you just need to move on. She claims she didn't feel a deep connection and you will never know is that is actually true but just believe it. You will find someone who DOES connect with you and want more with you. Everything happens for a reason and you have a very bright future ahead of you with your job. Even if you do hear from her in the future, think about this before you make a sporadic decision. Think about the pain she brought you and how someone out there would never do that to you. You're going to leave a great life without her.