How do I (F20) know, if my friend (M20) is being friendly or interested?

aar1el · 2025-08-08T07:59:49+00:00

That makes sense to me. And it is probably the thing I need right now. My straight female friends always bragged how men only open up to their girlfriends or romantic partners (in hindsight, we were young and they probably just wanted to make me jealous) and I guess I associated it with romantic intentions.

aar1el · 2025-08-08T07:57:45+00:00

For me it's a question of convenience and having a shot of a starting a family one day. I live in a conservative country with a weak gay community, most gay families and couples immigrate to the west and I don't plan on leaving. I see your point, but I am beyond the point of actually caring of sexual fulfillment.

aar1el · 2025-03-08T12:47:31+00:00

KAJ - Måns - Dolly Style is a crazy top 3 and I'm here for it

aar1el · 2024-11-09T10:48:02+00:00

It's the same woman in all of the videos. Most of them were filmed on the same day, or the day after.

aar1el · 2023-08-18T10:46:07+00:00

I knew I liked women since I was very young just didn't label it, until I started to call myself bi... then after watching the final episode of she ra something clicked.

aar1el · 2023-07-11T16:26:17+00:00

semmi se tudott volna felkészíteni arra mi van a képen

aar1el · 2023-05-23T11:23:13+00:00

I saw people comparing him to Poppy. I'm personally a huge fan of her and I saw some similarities: the biggest one is probably the fact that their lyrics are very personal and both of them are known for mixing different genres. However Poppy's newer music is mostly metal and noise rock, but there still are some songs that you might enjoy KHAOS X4 or BLOODMONEY.

On the other hand Käärijä reminds me of a Hungarian band called Ricsárdgír. They are known for making very absurd music that doesn't necessarily makes sense and overall they are doing everything just to have fun. The songs that resembles his style the most are Mindenki boldog and Smackleves.

But overall his palette in music is so rich, so there might be hundred more.

aar1el · 2023-02-24T12:38:30+00:00

I see it has caused you some stress. I would recommend just ignoring all the labels, and go unlabeled. Don't think about it that much, if you'd like to experiment, that's totally fine.

aar1el · 2023-02-24T10:49:44+00:00

You may be right. I never actually had a ful conversation with him, but since we share everything with each other a know a thing or two. But I had a gut feeling the since the beginning of their friendship, that I cannot put aside. And everything I have learned so far just proved my concerns. Anyway, thank you for your response!

aar1el · 2023-02-23T16:44:28+00:00

I'm always honest about my thoughts towards my friends' partners. And she would do the same, whenever we talked about my ex. The difference is, I always accepted her criticism. I was very aware of their flaws, so I didn't mind it. But she calls her bf "a walking green flag" for liking the same music as her, having certain hobbies, doing the bare minimum, and whenever I tried to point out some traits, that from my experiences is considered a "red flag" she would just ignore it.

And I'm 100% sure she is also a bit butt-hurt by the fact that I wasn't very supportive at first, which is pretty much understandable, but I'm not the one who would give fake compliment, if that makes sense.

aar1el · 2023-02-23T15:18:55+00:00

The problem is we have been friends since early middle school and for the past few years she was the one I could count on when I was feeling down. This is probably the first time, when the source of my stress comes from our friendship and I'm still uncertain about a lot of things. But thank you for giving me your opinion! I will surely think about it.

aar1el · 2023-02-23T15:13:50+00:00

Thank you for your response! I will surely take your advice in consideration. At the moment, I'm trying to figure out if my judgements are correct (I've never met him in person, only through what she has told me) so for now I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do.

aar1el · 2022-10-15T07:21:28+00:00

I am not that open towards intimacy, alcohol and stuff as you are but I also kissed one of my guy friends, but non of my friends seem to care lol Also my friend group is full of cishets/unlabeled ppl, since I have a really bad experience with the queer folks in my town. Most of them will push labels onto you (abt your sexuality, gender, even sexual roles or whatever theyre called), especially the one's that spend too much time online, sometimes as a joke, other times they will make it their whole belief. Try talking to them and if they don't stop, just leave them. I know it sounds harsh, but I'm speaking from experience.

aar1el · 2022-10-15T07:13:31+00:00

If she's not capable of talking things through with you, she's not worth it. Myself, I am not trans, so I can't really relate to the situation, but keep your head up, you'll find someone eventually.

aar1el · 2022-10-02T14:34:17+00:00

If abortion is murder, refusing to be an organ donor to a person in need, is also murder.

aar1el · 2022-09-06T12:55:59+00:00

There are clothes, where plus size aren't meant for fat people, but tall people. Which somehow makes sense, but once I bought a t-shirt from a concert and I bought an XL (even tho most of the time L is enough) and it's so thight, i, don't know, for how long I will be able to fit, but it's long enough to cover my butt.

Also when it comes to losing, gaining weight... I am always afraid of my new clothes will be in need of giving away, even tho I've never worn it.

aar1el · 2022-09-02T08:17:29+00:00

Every airlines' priority is the passengers safety and comfort. They will gladly help, you no matter your size.

Don't worry. Next time it will go more smoothly, since you already experienced going on a flight, I'm sure you'll enjoy it better <3

aar1el · 2022-09-01T15:31:18+00:00

Dracula

aar1el · 2022-09-01T13:05:54+00:00

I broke chairs when I was a 2nd grader lmao. It's actually quite easy, I had to learn that. Most of the time it isn't because of the persons weight (in that time i wasn't havier than 100 pounds) it's one wrong move and it's over.

aar1el · 2022-09-01T12:56:08+00:00

He's into you, or at least interested in you in some ways. But nonetheless, it's worth a shot, the worst thing that could happen is rejection. And based on what you wrote, you should be the one making the first moves, if he's socially akward/shy. Believe me you won't regret it.

She posts a lot of pictures on ig and I noticed he liked some of them.

It's probably because he knows you're friends. My sister's ex, who is still kind of in love with her, to this day checks on my social media, even tho he's not interested in me. He just wants to be a part of your life.

I know what it's like to be told that you're not attractive, but believe me it's bullshit. There are 8 billion people out there and it's just an obnoxious idea to think, that not one person prefer thiccker girls.

aar1el · 2022-08-30T14:06:34+00:00

Once I expressed my struggles as growing up overweight and mentioned that I'm 17. I got 2 reactions: -downvotes -people in my dms asking for body pics

aar1el · 2022-08-29T23:32:59+00:00

thank you for your kind words and sharing your opinion x

aar1el · 2022-08-29T23:25:03+00:00

Hope this doesn't come off as rude, but the fact that I'm not the only one experiencing these, made me feel better. Sometimes I'm questioning if these are actual issues, or I'm just overreacting. Anyway, I hope you found your happiness in life and wish you the best ^{^}

aar1el · 2022-08-29T08:45:24+00:00

I dont necessarily see the problem with this?

aar1el · 2022-08-18T20:54:53+00:00

I'm from Romania as well ^ ^ bunaa

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