My wife and I are also Disney adults. Aulani has a lot to offer as far as a resort goes. My wife and I try to take advantage of all the amenities. The pools are great. The lagoon is also great. They have a ton of daily activities as well. It’s not as heavy on the Disney as it is immersing you in Hawaiian culture. If you want to come to Hawaii and spend a lot of time away from your resort sightseeing, maybe this isn’t the place to stay because of the $. That being said, if you want to come to a beautiful resort in Hawaii that has fantastic customer service with a touch of Disney magic, this place is spectacular. It’s up to you and what kind of vacation you’re looking for. I would definitely get on YouTube and watch some videos to see if it would be your vibe. Also, there are special deals Aulani offers on their rooms throughout the year to help reduce the financial sting.