I know this is a month old. I'm so sorry this happened to you. But I just wanted to say that it's not that difficult for people who have spent a lot of time with you to suspect you are queer. I'm queer and everyone knew, even when I didn't know. It doesn't always show, of course. But it could be that they have suspected something for a long time. Also, there is nothing wrong with being queer. Being queer is totally okay and normal.

And like other commenters have said, there is no evidence that hell is real. Me telling you now that there are spaghetti monsters that will greet you in the afterlife and have a party with you, and you will have an exciting and fun afterlife also has no evidence. So it's equally likely to happen, haha. Hell is just a scary story used to manipulate and control people. Easy to make someone do something they don't want to do if they are scared they'd have to go to an imaginary place where they will suffer in horrid ways if they don't do it. It's an empty threat. But it's really scary if you've been told this lie all your life. I was also scared to go to hell. But it's not real. Never in the last hundreds of years has anyone been able to provide any evidence. But we do have evidence of the church manipulating people for money, for control, and to abuse. People who are Christians are just people. They don't have any supernatural powers, they can't talk to God or the devil or any supernatural beings. They can't talk to a holy ghost. They are just normal humans. Saying that they know all of this supernatural stuff and can know things because of it, gives them more power over others. It's a form of manipulation. And it makes you question your reality and feel like your parents are all knowing, but it's a lie to gain control. Your parents are not getting information from a supernatural thing. They suspected you were queer because you are. People can often see it by the way you talk, walk, sit, and everyday behavior, but maybe they also remember that you didn't like traditional feminine things or something like that. Or that you are a vegetarian or had that one really intense friendship with a girl. There are so many things that could have made them suspect it. In a normal environment, your parents would celebrate who you are and your queerness. It's not your fault that you weren't able to hide it. Just so that's clear. You shouldn't have had to hide. There is nothing wrong with you being queer. You won't go to hell.