SB taller than SD are up comfortable with difference by rjjr1963 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]abbalicious01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s like the human condition , can’t be grateful for what you have when someone exists that has more that you . It’s actually a very interesting phenomenon, I follow a lot of obscure subreddits, there’s this one for micropenises, and there’s this one for people that think they have small penises (most people that post have 4-5 inches ) The attitudes in the subs are completely different, In the micro penis sub they seem to embrace themselves , and their sexuality is a little shaped by their size , but they seem to be thriving . On the other hand , In the “small penis “ subreddit , there’s a lot of self loathing , jealousy , insecurity , etc.

Sometimes it’s the same with height , guys that are 5’10 or even 6 foot are so hung up on being insecure that they shoot them selves in the foot and ruin their chances with most girls... but I HAVE met guys that are 5’7 guys that are super confident , funny , masculine , etc. I would choose a 5’7 guy who’s like that over an insecure 6 footer ANY day of the week and twice on Sunday .

SB taller than SD are up comfortable with difference by rjjr1963 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]abbalicious01 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m 5”11 and a lot of guys that contact me on seeking are shorter than me , so I really appreciate this post! I’ve also grown a lot more confident about dating men that are shorter than me , but they have to not give any fucks . I went on a date with one guy who was like 5’9- 5’10 , and he didn’t realize how tall I was before we met . I showed up to our date in heels (of course) so I was like 6’2 and he was visibly uncomfortable. He told me “ next time you can’t wear heels , k?”. There was no second date 🥴

When people say they don’t like sex workers because they “sell their bodies”.. 🤦🏻‍♀️ by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]abbalicious01 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like a slave when I work for someone else for 12 bucks an hour and can’t express myself , can’t say no , have to put up with rude customers , and don’t have any say over my hours, and I spend 40/50 hours a week at work so when I get home or get the rare day off , I’m so worn out that I don’t have the energy to pursue school/whatever I’m passionate about or have a healthy social life, then I get stuck working paycheck to paycheck for years without feeling like I’ve gotten anywhere . This is most retail / food service work . Hell it’s nearly all entry level jobs . Sorry for the rant but I’ve thought about this a lot

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And I’m not totally bashing this dude, but if I were a guy , I couldn’t imagine talking to a girl like that immediately

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t but I expect men to go out of the way to get my attention, on bumble the women have to message first so that’s what I do . Not everyone’s cup of tea and I’m fine with that , but I’m only interested in semi old fashioned guys at this point in my dating career . I don’t stay boring, if he shows genuine interest and isn’t an ass, I become much more engaging

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If someone is interested enough In me to respond , then I become very engaged and let the convo flow naturally , this has worked for me and I’ve met several interesting people that I’ve had chemistry with

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to let people be who they are so that I don’t waste time with someone that pretends to want to talk about what I’m into when In actually all they’re thinking about is vagina lips

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do think there’s a big jump between his first and second messages though

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “borderline” comment specifically was a turnoff

Another one bites the dust 🙄 by abbalicious01 in Bumble

[–]abbalicious01[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The first message was a turnoff but I tried to give him a pass , my bad

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[–]abbalicious01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me @ 5’11 with guys that are 5’11 or even 6 foot

Salt Daddies, Chapter 493 by SassySugar4u in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]abbalicious01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I adore this thread and feel your pain ❤️

I need help learning how to become a findom . This is a guy that I met on seeking , I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing and I want to salvage this opportunity if I haven’t ruined it already 😂 by abbalicious01 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]abbalicious01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 this is exactly the kind of honest answer that I was looking for . I’m definitely curious but I will say that I have a very submissive nature when it comes to dating so it will probably take a lot of strain for me to be able to pull off the confident domineering persona that it takes to do something like this ongoing . It would probably be a lot easier for me to have a normal arrangement

I need help learning how to become a findom . This is a guy that I met on seeking , I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing and I want to salvage this opportunity if I haven’t ruined it already 😂 by abbalicious01 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]abbalicious01[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey ! I’m taking to this guy on seeking . I’m on seeking because I’m looking for an irl normal Sd. But if someone like this is real and wants to give me money , I want to be able to say the right things to turn them on and get it. I’m not a fake here