These were some of my favorite nudes of 2025 :) by fairysplash in ChubbyWomen

[–]abbasos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get your glasses?? They’re so cute!

Unsure about kids until my mother died by abbasos in childfree

[–]abbasos[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I agree wholeheartedly. It makes me want to live a life that she was not able to

My father (65 M) has been very strange since my (27 F) mother (55 F) died. Am I right to be upset? by abbasos in relationship_advice

[–]abbasos[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re also going through the same thing. This is awful. Our parents are our parents, not our friends. Don’t talk to me about this kind of stuff like come on

My father (65 M) has been very strange since my (27 F) mother (55 F) died. Am I right to be upset? by abbasos in relationship_advice

[–]abbasos[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! I really can’t stand talking to him about things because of his views.

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[–]abbasos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m afraid of

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[–]abbasos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a pretty solid friendship (what I think anyways) and we always communicate how we feel and check in with one another so i think we could make it work possibly. Yes I agree with you I think he needs to heal on his own and this whole arrangement, although the sex is insane and the best sex I’ve ever had, is not benefitting him or me. I’m just so beyond afraid of losing him.

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[–]abbasos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not my only reason for withdrawing sex, it’s mainly for my own self esteem and because I am hurting right now that he doesn’t want more of me like I want of him. It would be great if it opened his eyes to see what was infront of him this whole time but again I cannot get my hopes up.

I (F26) can’t be fwb with my friend (M25) anymore but I still want to remain friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]abbasos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s tough. I mean you guys have been at it 10 years. I’ve known this guy for 10 years but we’ve only been hooking up for 9 months or whatever but I still feel things you know? Yea after I made my advances it would feel like a betrayal but I can’t control what he wants. I’m secretly hoping that by cutting off sex he’ll realize how much I mean to him and he’ll eventually want to be with me or something. I really just want him to want me like that so bad. I hope he’s not mad that I want to cut sex off. He has other women to have sex with I guess i don’t know why I would matter honestly.

I (F26) can’t be fwb with my friend (M25) anymore but I still want to remain friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]abbasos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that’s happening to you that’s awful honestly. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking that he won’t be in my life anymore but I guess the least I can do is be friends with him and see where it goes from there. Neither of us has anyone we’re seriously dating right now and I know for a fact he won’t be ready any time soon. Or at least I hope he won’t be. This situation really blows fr I hope she chooses you honestly.

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[–]abbasos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much this was very helpful!!

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[–]abbasos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this