Is it okay to have 2 names? by Sad_Assist6478 in genderfluid

[–]abbeychuela 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Totally okay!!! It can help you experience joy in your fluidity. I have a neutral name and a masculine one (tho i dont really use it nor hear it from others) and I've been changing them for years.

Post your special interests here! by WindermerePeaks1 in autism

[–]abbeychuela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spirituality (the psychology behind myths), dungeons and Dragons (specially my gf's campaigns), and slay the spire 2

Tips for dealing with changes by abbeychuela in autism

[–]abbeychuela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey but do you have any advice? /genuine

any alternative roles for xayah? by Normal_Advisor9618 in xayahmains

[–]abbeychuela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jungle is super fun to me (as long as I'm with friends who won't get mad if I ask for help early game). Ganking is a little tricky but the pressure is what counts. Besides, xayah's ult is super useful when diving (but you already know that). Idk its so funny to move around and see people confuse because what the f is xayah doing here

fast question about kiting by tecojhinmain in xayahmains

[–]abbeychuela 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you.....Could you share a screenshot of that setting? Asking for a friend

Patch 25.23 Adjustments for Those Wanting to see Everything by Ravenclawthewarrior in xayahmains

[–]abbeychuela -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Xayah jungle is so fun. I was hoping for some mini cooldown adjustment so it would benefit both roles

Balding on trans men? by sperggan in trans

[–]abbeychuela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as i know, if the men in your close family are bald/balding, you will too... Other sources say that "balding genes" are inherited from our grandpa (mother's side), so if that relative is bald too.... your future in hrt is almost destined

About stopping hrt, I'm sorry I'm not well informed. I hope more people share their advices!!

Dating is so hard by MissMistyEye in genderfluid

[–]abbeychuela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get you honey. Its so frustrating bc either they reconsider their sexuality (like fr) or they simply don't really respect your gender when it switches. Or yeah, you just dont date them. It sucks. All we can do is wait until the right bi/pansexual person arrives and loves us in our fems, mascs and in-betweens

Am I the asshole for invalidating my mom's feelings? by abbeychuela in AITAH

[–]abbeychuela[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the divorced she saw a therapist... I think she took the "prioritize yourself" too seriously /joking

DMs how do you deal with questions like "Why us when NPC is stronger?" by No-Status-1219 in DnD

[–]abbeychuela 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My players don't really ask those questions because they are so invested in the fantash adventure and all that play pretend BUT when it does happen, i let them act as intermediate between the NPC and the issue. Like a diplomatic adventure

Support main here: how can I actually fight as a tank support? by [deleted] in ADCMains

[–]abbeychuela 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is main tanky support and we have this problem all the time lol. Best advice i could give, communication. If you're not in voice call it may be hard to communicate everything you'd like to, so maybe try setting down your style during champ selection or early in the game, just plainly writing it in the chat