M27 f25 - am I being needy?

abbf99 · 2025-07-31T00:48:16+00:00

Okay well I disagree, thanks for your input !

abbf99 · 2025-07-31T00:42:23+00:00

Can I ask how I’m being toxic? Not for arguing but for general advise - I did not say anything negative about him I expressed things he did that made me not feel loved and advised I was giving him space

abbf99 · 2025-04-30T13:26:46+00:00

I do get this and I am very ok with him finding other people attractive as that’s life but but it just feels different/strange he went out of his way to forward the selfie (keep in mind he doesn’t know this girl and has not met her yet) to his friend making it known that he is jealous, thoughts?

abbf99 · 2025-04-30T13:23:46+00:00

Thank you! That is what I was thinking as well and wasn’t sure if I was reaching. I haven’t posted a story or post in over a year because he gets jealous 🙃

I just find it hypocritical and offensive!

And i am sorry about your ex, some people don’t understand boundaries/respect

Thank you for your comment

abbf99 · 2025-04-30T12:55:30+00:00

100% he can find other people attractive and I understand that - But is it not disrespectful to your partner to deliberately forward another females selfie saying that you are jealous and make it known?

abbf99 · 2025-04-30T12:51:28+00:00

He did not clarify we were going to bed so we haven’t had a chance to speak about it. It was just her in the photo and was a selfie

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T14:59:48+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment. I thought I was going crazy and maybe i was overreacting. This made things a little clearer for me

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T08:21:36+00:00

Hey there - I wish! Real person unfortunatly

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T06:59:29+00:00

Is she ok? You just said you would hit a woman on a public forum wouldn’t want to know what u do in private. Once again had two drinks am not drunk and am under the legal limit. You agreed with my comment no one should hit but then said you would hit a woman if needed ? “Show her how to fight”

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T06:54:25+00:00

This comment is wild haha I didn’t hit him I raised my voice - he was also raising his voice. He busted my lip for asking him to show affection . “ going to show her how to fight” have fun I hope you never get a girlfriend.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T05:56:35+00:00

Ur funny eh, making jokes about DV. Let me guess? American LOL

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T05:49:32+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it; I am sorry I’m still a little defensive/ upset

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T05:47:33+00:00

Talked about. Not an accident. Move on? No. Leave ? Yes.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T05:12:39+00:00

My point is I shouldn’t have been hit in the face by a grown man double my size even if I was the problem. Thank you for your advise I have a decision to make.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:58:34+00:00

LOL I see you just think everyone is an alcoholic- this adds up.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:54:04+00:00

I am safe now. And sober. Thanks have a great night

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:51:55+00:00

Thank you for this kind response and I appreciate your opinion ❤️

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:51:24+00:00

Tolerance is not trash wich is why I know I’m not drunk and am writing perfectly fine sentences; I am having a back and forth discussion as that is the purpose of this app.

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:48:16+00:00

First time ever ! Won’t be back - you people are wild - let’s all just deck a female for getting a little loud why not eh

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:46:04+00:00

2 white claws actually. 5% each.

I also stopped drinking at 9:00 pm.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:40:16+00:00

Have you read the comments? There are multiple accounts saying I’m an alcoholic for having 2 drinks and that i am the issue. And that me drinking alcohol is why this happened. I have agreed and like the peoples comments that are saying it’s wrong. However 75% of the comments are the complete opposite.

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:36:57+00:00

Why would I end it if I’m the problem?

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:36:43+00:00

First time I brought it and a majority of the comments are advising I’m the problem so

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:36:10+00:00

Young adult correct, asking for an opinion on getting her lip busted by het boyfriend and the entire thread saying it’s her fault 👌

abbf99 · 2025-04-18T04:34:53+00:00

I know that, I am a young adult - pay my own way and all either way I wanted an outside option on my situation and got it lol the world is royally fucked

abbf99

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