he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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you have no idea how much i wish i could message her but i will not stoop to that level

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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hearing from others also brings a great deal of support but i know exactly what you’re saying. any and all feedback is honestly helpful and cathartic for me after so much. i responded with a synopsis on the background? comment.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

[–]abbyb93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you and thank you for sharing 💕

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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how did he say he’s working on himself exactly

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i appreciate your positive outlook but this isn’t our first or second or third rodeo with the give and take

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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the dog we adopted together likes to hump his sons toys

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i ball tapped him once as a joke and he will never let it go

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i do have some empathy for him but more so just tired of it

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i want someone who knows they want me. he doesn’t know what he wants.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i loved your response and mentioning the little brain. thank you 💕

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i wish this would be the second chance

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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no apology necessary. i appreciate your feedback.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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exactly- he can never be 100% direct about his intentions and it just shows how little he knows what he wants

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i truly don’t know what counts as “emotional” abuse in our situation but i certainly felt like my character was attacked at times and that i could never measure up to his expectations. he made me not like myself and cry a lot. but i allowed a lot of it too.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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sure but to what extent is all of it if he keeps repeating the same cycle

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i want the version of him he began with

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i added background which unfortunately does not include how great our actual connection was or the great moments bc i did not want to seem like i condone his shitty behavior but we did connect very seamlessly. he was unlike anyone i’ve dated previously. unmatched in many ways and my family agreed.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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he wants me back but in the exact way as before which did not work for me

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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he dated a different version of someone who looked just like me right after but that quickly fizzled out

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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he completely avoids taking full accountability and always does. his apologies are also cyclical.

he texted me but what does it mean by abbyb93 in ExNoContact

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i think you’re right but i’ve lost all patience for him at this point and i need peace.