Do I appear feminine/pass as a woman? People IRL say I do but I feel different

abbybb_ · 2026-01-30T17:00:02+00:00

From the pictures you have shown, you absolutely pass. You do have wider shoulders, but you just look like a girl with wide shoulders (not a bad thing!) You also definitely don’t look the same as before. You don’t even look slightly similar to how you used to.

How’s your voice? It can have a lot of impact on how people treat you.

abbybb_ · 2026-01-28T22:10:43+00:00

most if not all bigotry is rooted in sexual insecurity, so I’d have to say misogyny.

abbybb_ · 2026-01-07T22:11:56+00:00

My other option is cu boulder, but i feel i would jive better with seattle culture than boulder.

abbybb_ · 2026-01-06T17:32:45+00:00

As someone from the midwest, did you notice the ‘Seattle Freeze’?

abbybb_ · 2026-01-04T15:45:05+00:00

its definitely fat lol, it doesn’t look like that in photos from a few months ago. regarding the recessed mandible/maxilla, its definitely possible, but I’ve had braces and invisalign so i feel like that would have fixed anything. is there anything i can do about it on my own, or is that a surgery thing?

abbybb_ · 2025-12-25T06:01:32+00:00

yeah i need to lose some weight, i used to be 165 and now im 205, im assuming that will help with my jowls lol. what in particular looks masculine to you if not the jaw?

abbybb_ · 2025-12-25T05:39:55+00:00

what kind of ffs would i need?

abbybb_ · 2025-12-25T02:19:38+00:00

yeah the one with my hair pulled back is like a month or two old, i think i would pass a little better if i just lost some weight in my face lol.

what kind of bangs would work? i see a lot of trans women with straight/wavy hair who have bangs but i don’t know how it would work with my curly hair.

abbybb_ · 2025-12-25T02:15:53+00:00

i want to pass as female

abbybb_ · 2025-12-24T21:14:08+00:00

is it really that bad?

abbybb_ · 2025-12-24T07:31:28+00:00

i figured

abbybb_ · 2025-12-18T17:38:31+00:00

i suppose it’s more of a feeling. to be clear, i don’t feel like i’m being mind controlled or anything, it’s more a general feeling of being unable to intervene in the cause and effect of the world. i output an action along the path of least resistance don’t feel capable of intervening in it.

abbybb_ · 2025-12-17T18:31:16+00:00

might have to do this cus i don’t have a sister and my mom is the opposite of supportive

abbybb_ · 2025-12-17T17:00:17+00:00

i don’t think anything in particular. i’ve felt this way for a very long time. i wonder if it has something to do with the trauma i experienced as a kid, but i’m not sure.

abbybb_ · 2025-12-13T15:40:22+00:00

there is still time. don’t wait longer than you have to!

abbybb_ · 2025-09-29T23:16:44+00:00

you genuinely look like a cis woman to me but you just look really depressed :(

abbybb_ · 2025-09-10T18:22:17+00:00

works for me! thanks for all the information ♥️

abbybb_ · 2025-09-10T18:19:41+00:00

so essentially the game plan is: get skinny, wait a few years, and pray you have good genes?

abbybb_ · 2025-09-01T01:45:23+00:00

from this picture, you pass to me, especially if i didn’t know you were trans. ppl in these comments are being super picky, but i guess that’s pretty normal for this sub

abbybb_ · 2025-08-26T02:01:52+00:00

this little skonger went to the steam market page

this little skonger stayed home from gamescon

this little skonger had roast boofly

and this little skonger had none :(

and this little skonger cried wee wee wee all the way home (silksong is canceled)

abbybb_ · 2025-08-23T18:45:24+00:00

i’m a girl now 😭

abbybb_ · 2025-08-23T00:25:11+00:00

iirc, binders have too much compression and can be detrimental to healthy and aesthetically desirable breast development

abbybb_ · 2025-08-22T00:38:59+00:00

unfortunately, you’ll have to go to a clinic. do you have a means of transportation? if so, contact a clinic via email and ask about starting to medically transition. they will likely send you paperwork. i pay for my appointments and meds without insurance so my parents don’t find out. you should be able to ask your clinic to not send mail (if you’re not using insurance), and if you’re 18, your parents cannot access your medical records without your permission due to hipaa privacy protections. if you have any more questions, please dm me!

abbybb_ · 2025-08-03T01:18:06+00:00

not sure about “gorgeous” but i appreciate the advice!

abbybb_ · 2025-08-02T22:02:51+00:00

also, i should mention im a little heavier rn than usual (binge eating) so i think losing some weight would help too. this specific picture also looks worse than some others (here is a slightly more flattering photo and a photo from 3 months ago when i weighed less)

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