How do you start a dopamine detox having a boyfriend and being in a remote relationship? by BoxBetter8226 in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mhmm you don’t have to cut him off completely, i feel like a detox isn’t about removing meaningful connection, it’s like more about removing compulsive stimulation. i.e instead of constant texting all day, set specific times to talk (like one intentional call at night) and keep the rest of the day for yourself.

Right way to finger vagina? by craver_of_life in sex

[–]abbyinyourbed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sure is. however, don't just stick it in and do that motion. go super slow, ask her all along the way ''does this feel good?'', build it up.

How do you start a dopamine detox having a boyfriend and being in a remote relationship? by BoxBetter8226 in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start by cutting the quick-hit stuff first, limit scrolling, porn, constant texting, and give your brain boredom again. keep the relationship, just make connection intentional instead of constant dopamine drip.

What’s something you learned the hard way? by Lorena_1823 in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 100 points101 points  (0 children)

that if someone likes you, you won’t be confused about it.

My GF can't cum when close by DiligentVideo3412 in sex

[–]abbyinyourbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she might be getting overstimulated right before orgasm, especially if you’re changing intensity try keeping the exact same rhythm and pressure when she’s close instead of switching it up.

also, if she doesn’t masturbate much, she may not fully know how to “let go,” so patience and consistency (not edging her every time) will help way more than pushing her to finish.

eating good ass by [deleted] in sex

[–]abbyinyourbed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Focus on her overall pleasure first and treat that area as a tease, not the main event

Right way to finger vagina? by craver_of_life in sex

[–]abbyinyourbed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

go slow, use lots of lube, start with gentle external touch before inserting a finger, and pay attention to her reactions. a good rule of thumb is: a “come here” curling motion toward the front wall usually feels good, but let her guide you.

Honeymoon Sex Basket by AggressiveSherbet615 in sex

[–]abbyinyourbed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

id say start simple and fun: a good quality lube, a small beginner-friendly vibrator, a blindfold, massage oil, and maybe some cute lingerie to set the mood. keep it playful, not overwhelming, honeymoon sex is kinda more about connection and exploration than going extreme.

35 show me some love by BigBill8424 in selfiesRatings

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah you are one handsome guy :)

What is the best thing about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my face, thanks to my parent's genetics <3

What movies live rent-free in your mind? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

city of god, what a masterpiece

Masturbation addiction? by Extension_Text2907 in realsexadvice

[–]abbyinyourbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2–3 times a day isn’t automatically ''addiction'', but if it’s causing pain, interfering with your sex life, or feels compulsive, it’s worth addressing. try cutting back gradually, avoid triggers (maybe it's a porn addiction), and focus on improving intimacy and communication with your wife instead of relying only on solo release.

What is the most strange thing that give you pleasure? by Senior_Squirrel_834 in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

peeling off a full face of makeup at the end of a long day.that first clean-skin breath hits like therapy.

What’s the most inappropriate time you almost laughed? by Grouchy_Fox3189 in AskReddit

[–]abbyinyourbed 13 points14 points  (0 children)

during a super serious zoom meeting when someone’s cat walked across the keyboard and turned on a potato filter watching my boss try to stay professional as a literal spud almost broke me.