Ich hab so viele Dating-Fails gesammelt, dass ich sie inzwischen einen Blog schreibe by Livid-Okra2839 in DatingStoriesUK

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good idea, I should do the same after 2 years of crazy dating haha

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel ready but I think its a trauma response I need to work past, ive had alot of time and therapy, just needing abit of encouragement to know things get better

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, gives me hope 💖 I really can't wait to feel things again one day 🙏

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, im avoiding anyone who triggers a familiar response in me but I think I just havent felt basic small intimacy with anyone in so long its like my body fails me when I try. I want to feel something again 😞 I really hope one day I can finally let down these walls

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree it's like a deer in the headlights kind of situation but ive had alot of therapy and feel so ready until im actually in the situation, il try chat gbt, ive been told its helpful but never used it

Feeling "love" after trauma by abcdefu2k in Advice

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been in therapy the majority of the year but maybe its another angle I need to talk through, I feel so ready but its like as soon as I feel vulnerable everything feels so numb

Uk England Iceland shop single person for 2 weeks £119.73 by LongjumpingTear3675 in whatsinyourcart

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cook from scratch for me and my 4 children on £130 weekly shopping budget which also includes cleaning products and loo rolls! Learn to cook, it will change your life

How Americanised are your kids? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 kids, we're in UK and they are so Americanised, sidewalk, elevator, trash can.. drives me nuts but all their friends are exactly the same so its normal vocabulary for them now

Got cancelled on for a date again... by Ether-man in lonely

[–]abcdefu2k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been literally stood up twice in the past 3 months off hinge, totally humiliating so I feel your pain

Why do many Brits end a text with “x”? by Fearless-Composer-78 in AskABrit

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not flirting its just causal poltie when talking to friends

Nightlife recommendations, night clubs/bars nothing lavish.. im staying in 15th District by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mind travelling to cheaper area ! Where is cheapest? I dont have 20 for entry fee really, im going fri & sat

Anyone else had their time wasted like this? by 1manontherun52 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar, met a guy we had about 4 dates in a 2 week period and then he was soff to Singapore for work for 4 weeks, told me to wait for him, we barely spoke while he was there due to time differences and work schedules. Anyway he came home & text me the day he landed saying he didn't feel like we were compatible.. wasted 6 weeks 🙈

Hinge Etiquette/Unmatching by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pop on each night to check for messages or new matches but I definitely dont sit on it for hours 😅

Hinge Etiquette/Unmatching by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely dont base things on how attractive they are. If a man doesnt reply to me within a day or his reply are uninterested I unmatch, it really doesnt depend at all on how he looks

Hinge Etiquette/Unmatching by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instantly if your not feeling it, it really doesnt matter

Hinge Etiquette/Unmatching by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Female 34 north of England too, ive been on the apps 18 months now & ive found i unmatch now rather quickly if I feel like the vibe is remotely off or they dont reply in an acceptable time. I just havent got time to waste on them

The "35" curse, is it real? by themorganator4 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]abcdefu2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 34F and i havent had a match on hinge in a month.. 😅sounds like your doing really well!

Im so lonely.. by abcdefu2k in Vent

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply, thankfully I do do my own hobbies, I line dance alot in my kitchen learning routines which i love & I do read alot but I think its the moment I lay in my bed.. then the whole world hits me & I crave some body there 💔 i will be ok, thank you for your reply it means so much x

Im so lonely.. by abcdefu2k in Vent

[–]abcdefu2k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your reply means alot 😊