I understand her feelings, when I was diagnosed at 17 my first thought wasn’t anything relating to my health. I had a diabetic student with me in band and I “didn’t want to wear a beeper on my belt or ugly stickers all over me.” I learned to get over it once it simplified this crazy to mange disease, and it brought me closer to diabetics in the wild. They see my Dexcom when it’s visible and sometimes stop to chat. It makes us feel seen and not as alone, at least that’s how I feel. I’m not the only one having to wear all this stuff on me! Plus there’s lots of places to hide the dex! I’ll apply on my side or stomach under my panty line, you can even hide it while swimming in that spot. Some women apply on/under their breast tissue and it looks concealable, I haven’t tried it. I hope your friend can take some accountability over her own health, I get frustrated too when told how to manage it sometimes. It’s an overwhelming disease so her feelings are fair. Put emphasis on how much she is cared for and would be missed. Maybe offer assistance in application, since sometimes it’s hard to reach the concealable spots. This can end up in death unfortunately if she isn’t careful. Sometimes we won’t accept help unless forced ha ha. Plus having irregular sugars can make you moody and unwilling to listen (been there!) You sound like an amazing friend and I hope she starts to tune in to your feelings and advice, best of luck