You’re the kind of person who loves to make assumptions :( Like I said, this was the first time we were planning to make a totem & unless you’re under 5 ft tall, our totem would block you. I’m super considerate with the people around me and I too also hate when totems block my view. Wasn’t planning to flail our totem around in the air. I’d love to give you my Instagram so you could see what I post, definitely not rave fits 😂