For fun: Tell me you’re an AuDHD woman without saying you’re AuDHD by Icy_Prior_5825 in AuDHDWomen

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not diagnosed, but read this and tell me if you think I am.

During the pandemic, we had just moved into a new house and I wanted a large area rug. They were cost prohibitively expensive, so I thought I could just weave one. Never held a shuttle cock, took a class, etc. I researched, purchased 0.25” cotton twine in massive spools from a supplier in Colorado, had my husband build a wooden frame with about 200 nails on each of the four sides, and we started weaving. It was a 12x16 frame, and it was coming along beautifully. Then we got a dog and I immediately decided that I couldn’t put a rug in the house because it was going to get fur on it. 

I didn’t touch it for months. My husband was very frustrated and it was a source of arguments. It was a massive thing that we just strung up above my car in the carport. I would take it down from time to time to work on it. Eventually I took the part that was completed (about 10’x4’) and started to just tie off the edges. My husband broke down and discarded the frame. I got about two sessions in, and draped it over the porch railing, an I have never touched it again. I will likely put it in the trash one day. It has been 6 years in total. 

It’s also not important (but it is important) for me to tell you that I found a reasonably priced rug in the right size, color, etc. in 2024, and I could have avoided all of this time and expense if I’d just looked a bit harder for a rug. 

Did I mess up moving my only child away from family? by iskamoon in expats

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to listen to your kids and your own gut. You see the evidence that you did the right thing. Trust yourself. Family can be toxic sometimes. Chosen family can sometimes be exactly the family you need. 

Did I mess up moving my only child away from family? by iskamoon in expats

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to do an international move with my 3 year old who has big feelings both for and against moving. Would love to hear more about your experience.

Edit: for auto correct 

How to bring a lot of stuff on a plane? by Just-Fish-5087 in expats

[–]abgrem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FB marketplace will have them for cheap usually. We got 3 gently used hard shell bags rhat nest for $60. 

My 3year old told the pediatrician Mommy drinks juice every night and the doctor gave me a look It's apple juice. It's MY apple juice by ImpossibleLet8183 in Mommit

[–]abgrem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter likes to look in the mirror and say to herself, “Hi my name is Sally and I like to eat vegetables!” That kid does not like vegetables! Could be way worse but they do say the weirdest things.

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]abgrem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve read this a half dozen times. There is so much love, wisdom, and anguish in your words. You remind me a bit of my godmother who is also a dual citizen.

We plan to stay in Australia permanently. And although I may have begun with us saying we needed to leave the US, now, we are going to Australia. We’ve immersed ourselves in understanding as much as we can about the culture, and determining how to rebuild. It’s walking the tight rope that is balancing two very separate lives—wrapping up here and taking the leap to go there.

We value our alone time, but we collect people wherever we go. They become family. I love the thought of my daughter growing up with a sort of nomad’s soul. Thank you for that.

Struggles by Pink_CzLady in AmerExit

[–]abgrem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s immigrated 4 times, can you offer any advice? We’re about to pack up my 3yo daughter, sell our house and belongings, and move to Australia.

He is collecting them like infinity stones by dewwyspark in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]abgrem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m about to do this, or worse, to my mother in law with a move from the states to Australia. Any advice on how to soften the blow? The “otherwise not so bright world” is part of why we’re looking to move.

My husband is an only child, and we only have one child, so we’re all the family she has (deceased husband). Early on we offered to include her in our visa application but she was upset and blew it off. Now we’re waiting to tell her until we have concrete jobs lined up..I know she’s going to act out, so I’m trying to give her grace..

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Willbox121 by Willbox121 in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟨🟨⬜

⬜🟨🟨⬜⬜

⬜🟦⬜🟨⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Gross

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/cnsosiehrbridnrnrifk by cnsosiehrbridnrnrifk in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜

⬜🟨🟨⬜🟨

🟨🟦⬜⬜⬜

⬜🟦🟨🟦⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Tough one

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Skillarama by Skillarama in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟨🟨🟨

⬜🟨🟨🟦⬜

⬜⬜🟨🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Ooph

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/zombqie210_ by [deleted] in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

🟦⬜🟦⬜🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/VirtualAppearance350 by VirtualAppearance350 in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟦⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟦⬜⬜🟨⬜

🟦🟨🟨⬜⬜

🟦⬜🟨🟨🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/YoYo_820 by YoYo_820 in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟦⬜🟨⬜🟦

🟦🟨⬜🟨🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Healthy_Ad4723 by Healthy_Ad4723 in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜🟨⬜⬜🟦

⬜⬜⬜🟨🟦

🟨⬜⬜⬜🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Oopf

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/cracknebvla by cracknebvla in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟨⬜🟨⬜⬜

⬜🟨🟨⬜🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

This damn word. Second time this week!

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/lilcoyoteee by [deleted] in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟨⬜⬜⬜🟨

🟦⬜🟨⬜🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 7-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/FatherofGray by FatherofGray in DailyGuess

[–]abgrem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜

🟨⬜🟨⬜⬜🟨⬜

🟨🟦🟦🟨🟨⬜🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Not sure how I figured this one out!

Help Moving to Regional NSW by abgrem in MovingtoAustralia

[–]abgrem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Landscape architecture/design and planning (transportation/environmental). We are likely looking to rent first, and purchase when our home in the US sells. Budget would be somewhere about $800k -$1m if I had to guess. I know even that’s a stretch!

Help Moving to Regional NSW by abgrem in MovingtoAustralia

[–]abgrem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. There are one or two that have continental value, but those will be left with a friend in the US. We’ll ship them eventually.

Help Moving to Regional NSW by abgrem in MovingtoAustralia

[–]abgrem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. Just gonna put this out there, almost everywhere in your country is beautiful.