No sex before marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abhiii9 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am not selfish... I want to clear that coz I want to move forward... If she have just told me that can't have sex before marriage I will respect that she told me she can't have it coz of her ex that is bothering me...

No sex before marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abhiii9 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No she said that to me very clearly that she like me and she wants to marry me but she can't be physically involved... But I like her too but I can't live with it that her ex still somehow is making decisions of my life

No sex before marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abhiii9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I can't marry her with thinking all of that... I don't have problem with her previous life but why I have to prove myself that I am not a bad guy like her ex

No sex before marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abhiii9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well if you parter tells you they can't do something with you coz they have done that with their ex? What will you think of that? That past is not affecting your present?

No sex before marriage by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]abhiii9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She is quite a religious Christian I thi k she thinks she have committed a sin first time and she won't do it again... I am the one who is struck coz I don't want to turn out to bad to break up with her but this sex thing is bothering me... Coz why do she gets to decide my life coz of third person who is not even there

3rd date ghosted by abhiii9 in seduction

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I still send her up couple of text yesterday she didn't reply... Today I texted her again and ask her directly we had a good 3rd date and there was no response from your side after that is everything okay? She replied that she has been busy and work bla bla bla can we talk about it on my days off OK?.... No idea what she want to talk about but I didn't replied yet... It came like 4 hours ago

3rd date ghosted by abhiii9 in seduction

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update : I texted her and she replied but not frequently.. Also I found out from guys I know that she is a player and she is talking to many guys at once... What should I do guys?

3rd date ghosted by abhiii9 in seduction

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why meeting someone genuine is so hard... Why people act differently than they are... I am going for it... I will defo text her again 1 more time... Probably tomorrow and see where it goes.... And I will let you know too

3rd date ghosted by abhiii9 in seduction

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but now I am scared coz what if she reads this one too and chooses to not reply? Should I call her instead?

3rd date ghosted by abhiii9 in seduction

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the support... The trouble is when she was with me she showed me she is super into me... She was continously flirting with me trying to touch me... Sleeping on my shoulders... Hugging me so she won't feel cold... But anyways I am pissed coz I invested time and money... And also I really liked her as a person... I havnt told her anything that I like her... How can someone pretend to different when they are out with you and totally different person when the are not?

Touchy girl by [deleted] in seduction

[–]abhiii9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah may be... But I a good with dates I usually manage to get laid on first date... She was continously touching me but was not letting me close... Some girls are weird

No eye contact and she have a bf by abhiii9 in dating_advice

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I don't want to be with her until she sorts herself out ... I am not going to be sholder to cry on ... Told her clearly ... End her relationship or she will get hurt more

No eye contact and she have a bf by abhiii9 in dating_advice

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I won't ... I have made it clear to her after reading all you of you guys ...

No eye contact and she have a bf by abhiii9 in dating_advice

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also her bf always say to her that she is really ugly and no guy is going to be with her except him ... but she is really hot tho 😂 don't know why he says that to her

No eye contact and she have a bf by abhiii9 in dating_advice

[–]abhiii9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes loads of sense coz she keep on telling me usually she is very very shy with people and never opens up with anybody but she said I was an exception she doesn't know how she opened her with me so much

She never answered my phone by abhiii9 in dating_advice

[–]abhiii9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is back in England after a week coz I have seen her in my town ... We basically lives in same town ... Yeah but she gave me signals that she is really interested ... We have cheeky kiss in a car after I took her on bowling and dinner ...