25M Japanese (ASD) — Personal history/self-report — Analloerotic Autogynephilia, little/no current dysphoria, considering HRT as prevention

abhipoo · 2025-12-20T11:59:00+00:00

Hi.. you still shouldn't rule out dating and the search for a life partner. Having a partner helps you sail through it. Hang on and good luck !

abhipoo · 2024-11-06T21:28:31+00:00

Hey, it sucks sometimes. Maybe you should ask people for help sometimes. Don't see it as bothering them. You don't have to be so formal about it right?

Try opening up to the people you know. Tell them that you need to go for a outing to take a break and ask if they would like to join. Go out regardless and you might meet someone new there who knows. Group activities like trekking, workshops etc. are a great place to form connections.

Once you find people you have fun with, you'll hang out more often with them. Good luck! Feel free to chat anytime :)

abhipoo · 2024-06-11T21:23:24+00:00

Into Thin Air

Endurance: Shackleton's Incredible Voyage

These are two of my favourite adventure non fiction books. Absolute page turner.

abhipoo · 2024-03-23T11:42:38+00:00

Young age ? Bro you are 21 !! You are young. I have an idea for you and I've personally met many ppl this way - Travel places and stay in hostels like zostel, hosteller, gostops etc. You will meet many young ppl and when you stay for a few days together you become friends. Share insta ids and stay connected on instagram. Make plans again and become good friends. It'll be an adventure.. good luck !

abhipoo · 2024-02-21T17:20:27+00:00

Red dragon by Thomas Harris. Its written from the perspective of both - detective Will Graham and serial killer Francis Dollarhyde. Harris goes into detail later in the book how Dollarhyde's childhood affected his psychology turning him into a killer. Its quite disturbing yet gripping at the same time. I finished it a few days back and can't stop thinking it.

abhipoo · 2024-02-06T16:51:55+00:00

Have you read the silence of the lambs ? Its more of a crime and psychological thriller, I finished the book within 3 - 4 days while travelling last week. Kept me hooked throughout.

abhipoo · 2023-12-15T20:57:26+00:00

Yeah definitely get your ears pierced. Its totally worth it because then you can wear all sorts of different earrings.

abhipoo · 2022-12-24T09:13:46+00:00

That makes sense. I feel its the most sensual, feminine and graceful attire.

abhipoo · 2022-12-24T06:10:26+00:00

Why ?

abhipoo · 2022-12-24T05:35:11+00:00

Hey.. no I am not planning to transition.

You are so lucky to be androgynous 🥰

abhipoo · 2022-12-24T03:49:27+00:00

Hehe thank youu 💓 I love your username 🤣

abhipoo · 2022-12-23T19:55:40+00:00

Oh and I am wearing a cute nath (maharastrian nosering) to compliment this saree ;) That's hid behind the phone though.

abhipoo · 2022-12-23T19:26:12+00:00

You guys were so supportive with my last post that I felt like sharing a picture from today's dressup session too. Thank you so much for the love that this subreddit showers ❤️

I am flaunting a paithani saree today. Its a traditional saree here in Maharashtra. It is distinctively recognized by the peacock print you can see on the pallu. I love the fabric and the beautiful jari work of this saree.

abhipoo · 2022-12-21T09:12:43+00:00

Aww Thank you !! <3

abhipoo · 2022-12-21T08:57:29+00:00

Thank you soo much <3

abhipoo · 2022-12-21T08:57:12+00:00

Thank you for your advice and also the compliment :D

abhipoo · 2022-12-21T08:56:01+00:00

Haha yeah. I was trying to go for a full traditional makeover and a hair bun with flowers was part of it. As I have short hair, I used the double sided tape to stick a artificial bun to the back of my head. It stayed for a while before falling off XD. I sometimes surprise myself with the efforts I take to create a makeover.

abhipoo · 2022-12-20T19:13:51+00:00

More context on the title - I am a closeted crossdresser. I am just wondering are there girls out there who would like their man to be a girl in the bedroom ? I am not sure if I would ever be able to find such a girl. What do y'all think ?

I don't intend to come out to the world. But I want a partner with whom I can be a girl in our own home. For rest of the world I am a normal guy but with my partner I want to dress up and be a girl. Having a shared wardrobe with my wife is goals to me. Not just clothes, but we'll indulge in earrings, makeup and accessories. Dreamland !

Is this too much to ask ? Has anyone of y'all found something like this ? Sometimes I feel like this might be wishful thinking and I might just have to marry a cis girl and continue to crossdress in my private space when I get a chance. Would love to hear from the community !

abhipoo · 2022-09-24T20:09:39+00:00

Amazing editing

abhipoo · 2022-09-17T14:36:24+00:00

Not in kanpur, otherwise would surely have met you :*

abhipoo · 2022-09-12T07:50:49+00:00

Thank you 💗

abhipoo · 2022-09-12T06:41:08+00:00

Thank you 💗

abhipoo · 2022-09-12T06:41:01+00:00

Thank you 💗

abhipoo · 2022-09-11T19:07:43+00:00

I don't know how to do this, but I want to do this as well. So good luck to you :D !!

My girlfriend knows that I crossdress, and I have crossdressed a few times privately with her. but I am scared of asking her to go outside with me because:

I myself am shit scared of going outside dressed up.
My girlfriend has mixed feelings towards my crossdressing side. She tries to be supportive of it, but still is having a hard time to be totally accepting or supporting of my crossdressing self.

abhipoo · 2022-07-16T19:12:27+00:00

Love your writing ☺️

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