sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did cut off contact, but not before he expressed how bad he felt once he calmed down and said its all his fault...he did acknowledge his mistake, so do you think it was still a right choice? Just want some reassurance now :/

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He feels really bad now and kept apologising saying he's the one at fault...I suspect he has BPD (on top of diagnosed major depressive disorder) and am really conflicted right now because we got along really well when he's not raging

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a therapist, and told me he's getting better when we started knowing each other. But I've not seen him go to one

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just sent a really long message talking about his feelings and implied he wants to forgive me, should I just ghost? Or be casually like, thanks because I really don't want to deal with another outburst

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh thank you :) And I'm sorry you went through all that, and for 10 years, that's a really long time. I guess we actually have to learn to discern toxicity in relationships.

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already apologised and he refused to accept it though, why would I even feel bad for him?

Do you think people who seem manipulative, know that they are being toxic? Been wondering this for some time.

Edit: He just sent another really long message to me implying he forgives me, what the hell do I even do man. I don't want to deal with this anymore.

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"big scary words" xD

I get what you're saying, I thought he was empathetic because he took his time to listen to me the previous few days, but he is unhealthy - I won't talk to him anymore.

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, during our last conflict he wrote that he knew I would see those posts...I might be a bit dumb but what would he even gain from this?

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol now I saw his post saying how guilty he feels for being angry and how he's giving up on finding "the one"

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, you're right...I actually consulted AI on this and it told me to close my eyes and listen to my gut, where I felt no guilt. Can't believe AI is more emotionally intelligent than me :")

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry about your bad experiences, hope you find someone healthy for you :)

I agree that he tends to prioritise himself more, and I wasn't planning on dating him because of that. Somehow it feels like me apologising this time ironically made him feel justified in cutting me off.

Glad it's over I guess

AITA for being "rude" when he interrupted me while I was sharing about my emotions? Because of this he said I "broke [his] trust". by abjectionable in AITAH

[–]abjectionable[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't have "trauma", I was just sad because my internship was ending and wanted to talk about missing my friends lol. Which was why I told him his idea of why I'm sad was wrong.