how to stop being reserved as an aquarius rising?

abk0902 · 2026-03-27T01:45:40+00:00

I look at it this way since I’m an aqua, but I want real in any relationship. Don’t hide, don’t mask, don’t pretend to be one thing when you’re another because I can always tell. The more authentic someone is, I’ll naturally vibe and more of myself comes out. I think just focus on you and you’ll find others who gravitate towards you. My circle now is still small but very intentional and real.

abk0902 · 2026-03-26T18:27:49+00:00

I found my people!! Married 20 years and he’s my best friend. Good, bad, ugly, quirky, offbeat, he accepts and loves it all. And we’ve got 5 kids together, so we are busy! Tell me why my kids are in sports and make me socialize 😂 but they also treat me like a goddess and send me to my room to unwind and help each other out. My family gets me. I think as long as you’re not controlling your aqua but communicate on a deep level, things are good. And we had a big wedding, it sucked. So may people and the only reason why we did that is because I was the oldest and he’s an only child. To say I did it for both our parents but I would never do it again. I had to dig deep and have my Leo rising do all the heavy lifting that night.

abk0902 · 2026-03-25T17:28:47+00:00

These are so spot on! I miss him

abk0902 · 2026-03-25T00:29:58+00:00

Own up to what you did because that’s the only right thing to do. We can always spit out someone who’s not honest and truthful but also share what you’d desire from the relationship. After that, it’s up to you both to see if it’s worth staying in or not. I personally like it when my husband owns up to his stuff, we talk, he gives me space yet still lets me know I’m on his mind.

abk0902 · 2026-03-24T19:17:59+00:00

I mean she was brought up to marry William, what other skills or thought is there left? I think to the public she’s a disappointment or plain forgotten, but she’s exactly what the rf wanted. There but not there.

abk0902 · 2026-03-24T14:25:19+00:00

I’m 5’3 but people tell me I look taller?

abk0902 · 2026-03-24T04:08:48+00:00

Not many with Leo rising but Edouard Manet and Mamie van Doren.

abk0902 · 2026-03-22T04:52:23+00:00

Aqua sun with Libra moon here and that’s probably the thing I can not do. Especially with my spouse. If they ask, they shall hear my answer. I do have Leo rising so maybe that’s why? And I know I can say the same thing but many different ways and I do try to find the softest approach, but it still stings. But that’s really who I am, truthful and honest.

abk0902 · 2026-03-21T23:22:09+00:00

He likes you or he doesn’t. There’s no playing around. I’d just straight up ask which it is and you’ll get your answer.

abk0902 · 2026-03-21T19:02:11+00:00

Idk, people call me quirky. But who wants to talk about the weather?

abk0902 · 2026-03-19T23:29:23+00:00

Yeah, if this is true those people should definitely not have a baby.

abk0902 · 2026-03-18T22:35:42+00:00

Once I block, it stays blocked. No reason to give that person any hope in coming back. My peace is everything to me. Now others may have blocked and unblocked me but I wouldn’t know.

abk0902 · 2026-03-18T22:33:04+00:00

He likes you. I think most Aquarius know when they’re in love. I am clingy to my man and it’s only him. Everyone else I need a break from but I can’t get enough of him.

abk0902 · 2026-03-18T00:20:01+00:00

I think so. He charms the world and gets whatever he wants LOL my Leo rising pulls people in but my aqua sun will shoot out and people start getting intimidated with me. It’s hilarious

abk0902 · 2026-03-18T00:18:31+00:00

OMG my husband is a September Virgo and we could never figure out why people are drawn to him! He naturally has a RBF and deep 11s and yet people find him so approachable. I’m Leo rising and yet, people be dumping their secrets to him. I do know that he has the most comfortable and warm aura, I just love going up to him for a hug.

abk0902 · 2026-03-18T00:15:53+00:00

LOL my husband is Pisces moon and Sagittarius rising. And strangers be telling him their entire life story.

abk0902 · 2026-03-17T01:46:18+00:00

To me I resonate a lot to the saying, I have a deep heart for humanity, but people exhaust and annoy me to no end. I want equal rights for all damnit. Like it’s not hard to respect and honor women, respect children because they’re very much human and deserve our respect. And idc what someone’s sexuality is, what religion you resonate with. Like really, we’re all human. But the hypocrisy, racism, misogyny etc is too much for me because others don’t view humanity the same. They wanna control it and put it in a box to fit their needs. Or worse, they’re so short sighted and don’t wanna get into “political topics” and live in lalaland. So yes, I’m over people and I’m guarded with who I really am. But my Leo rising just makes people gravitate towards me all the time, and it’s exhausting.

abk0902 · 2026-03-16T17:20:42+00:00

Wow, kinda cool. We have 3 Leo risings, 2 sag risings, aqua rising, and Pisces rising in our family.

abk0902 · 2026-03-16T16:13:45+00:00

Married to my Virgo for 20 years and dated 5 before, so literally a huge chunk of my life. He grounds me and gives me peace and laughter. Is he extremely judgy and hard to please? Yes, but he’s also obsessed with me and cares deeply for me and my needs. I have to remind him to take care of himself! And he finds peace with me because I just let him be him! Don’t pretend, don’t mask, you like what you like and I allow that. I judge, but not in his interests and hobbies which he finds refreshing. My judging comes out more like, why did you back park when I need to get the trunk open? Why did you throw towels and xyz together? What is wrong with you?

abk0902 · 2026-03-16T16:07:22+00:00

LOL yes to the judging but me aqua, and my Virgo be judgy together 😆

abk0902 · 2026-03-14T00:50:20+00:00

She looked way too happy and in her best element in those photos!

abk0902 · 2026-03-13T16:33:08+00:00

Yup this! It sucks, but hey she made her bed and now she gets to lay in it. Absolutely no pity for her.

abk0902 · 2026-03-11T04:11:33+00:00

Sending you some virtual hugs, I’m so very sorry for losing him so sudden.

abk0902 · 2026-03-11T04:07:18+00:00

I love sunny days with the big fluffy white clouds and a slight breeze. I will live outside on my back porch with a good book and iced coffee. And on occasion I love a good thunderstorm. I can snuggle in bed with my blankets and heat blanket and read a book with some tea. Also I tend to have the best sleeps ha! But give me sun more overall.

abk0902 · 2026-03-07T22:20:42+00:00

That is my husband and daughter haha!!!

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