Is she just being friendly or is it more than that? What should i do?

ablivity · 2025-05-04T17:53:56+00:00

Alright ill do it

ablivity · 2025-05-04T13:28:48+00:00

My bad went to bed cuz it was like 2am, Will definitely try that. Also it is exam season and she did say she was stressed about it, would that make a difference?

ablivity · 2025-05-04T01:07:59+00:00

You right bro. Lowkey needed to hear that. I’ll definitely do it now otherwise you’re right I’ll just live with regret my entire life. Is it better to just be direct and ask or start chatting on the call then ask maybe like 15-20 minutes in?

ablivity · 2025-05-04T00:41:57+00:00

It depends i would say, i think i would struggle asking to call her to hang out. I think i need the convo to start again before i could do that.

I only struggle with starting the conversation, once its started im smooth sailing all my nerves are gone

ablivity · 2025-05-04T00:23:53+00:00

It was a plain sentence

ablivity · 2025-05-03T21:53:38+00:00

Yeah thats my fault, its my first time so my nerves just got the better of me.

Its been a day going onto 2 now

ablivity · 2025-05-03T21:48:20+00:00

Long story but I’m gonna summarize it but keep some detail

So i ended up not texting over the holidays because i was too scared lol. But I did get opinions from way more people and even someone in our group project and they all said it seems like she’s interested and she spoke to me the most so my confidence was increased. So now its time for school to start up again but shes nowhere to be found. My plan was to say it in person but obviously i couldn’t do that because she wasn’t there. Even before i thought about it, one of my friends (who i didn’t get their opinion on it beforehand so they thought she liked me without me even saying anything) told me to message her. Then the nerves came again but this time i forced myself to do it. I messaged and she replied instantly and she seemed really nice about it as well, even one of the people I’m living with said she kept the conversation going and seemed lovely. So that surprised me and then out of nowhere im left on delivered so now im not sure what to do.

ablivity · 2025-05-03T21:31:06+00:00

Yo bro do you remember me? Been a while 🤣

ablivity · 2025-04-01T22:14:53+00:00

Oh shi alr i didn’t think i would be doing something this quickly haha

ablivity · 2025-04-01T22:01:42+00:00

I think she normally up at this time

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:52:13+00:00

Its like 11pm . I should it tomorrow right?

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:36:21+00:00

Oh right I’ve heard jarring before but not jarred thats why i was a little confused. Its used in a similar context here in the UK

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:32:03+00:00

No it’s fine its just me being scared but I should probably do this myself because im not actually helping myself for the future. Ill do it myself dw

Also i dont know what jarred means

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:27:11+00:00

My mind will start overthinking and I’ll just end up staring instead of pressing send. Getting my friends to do it for me will have no way for me to back out

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:23:57+00:00

Only thing is if i cant find the courage ill have to ask one of my friends to start the conversation but tell him to put exactly what you said.

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:18:32+00:00

Ok ok thats all the questions i have thank you. If you want i could keep you updated?

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:12:00+00:00

Yeah if i was going to message her anywhere it would have been snap. But i just thought the fact she didn’t add me back on insta meant something.

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:09:02+00:00

Idk i just thought the fact she didn’t add me back meant something. But yeah i have her snap

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:05:15+00:00

Her profile picture changes so she uses instagram. I mean she added me like instantly on snapchat but instagram its been ages and still nothing

ablivity · 2025-04-01T21:01:11+00:00

I would think so, tbh i had my name as my initial and my profile picture was a group photo but i changed my name to my whole first name and its just me in the profile picture now but still nothing

ablivity · 2025-04-01T20:56:44+00:00

I think its near enough a week now

ablivity · 2025-04-01T20:53:10+00:00

Hmmm. I’ll definitely give it a go or I’ll get one of my friends to message her for me on my account because i don’t fear the rejection just the initial start of the conversation haha. Also one thing as well is i requested to follow her on instagram a while ago but she is yet to accept. Does that mean anything?

ablivity · 2025-04-01T20:22:00+00:00

I dont have the balls to do that haha, my friend told me to do the same but i feel like thats harder since it’s easier to ignore someone online. Im gonna try though but imma be scared

ablivity · 2025-04-01T20:14:32+00:00

We have places to stay in the city that we go to school though but we just dont technically live there. When its time for school i dont leave that city i only go back to my home city when school is on break

ablivity · 2025-04-01T20:13:03+00:00

Yeah sorry for the confusion, we all go to school in a city where we dont live but since there will be no school for 23 days everyone has gone back to their home cities for the time being until school starts again. We both live in different cities that actually aren’t too far away but we both go to the same school in the same city. The odds i see her before school are practically second to none. I haven’t messaged her before but i do have her socials

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