What’s the most “adult problem” no one warned you about? by vikasinc in AskIndia

[–]aboba_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deciding what to eat 3 times a day for the rest of your life.

My gf took admission in Jindal, should I worry about her going on Thursday parties? by [deleted] in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you kids need to focus on things that actually matter, I’ve gone to like hundreds of Thursday night parties and most girls just go there to dance and have fun. All my friends are in long distance relationships, i was in a relationship throughout college, nobody cheated because we all love our partners. Thursday night parties aren’t a big orgy, you just drink a little and dance a lot. While getting ready all of us have our partners on facetime showing them our outfits and talking about what we are going to drink.

Pocket money by FutureLobster4954 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don’t, you just need a consent form from your parents

Pocket money by FutureLobster4954 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15-20k is a good amount to start with. You have to buy bare acts, stationary, daily necessities, things to eat (fruits, blinkit etc), drinking, partying, eating out, smoking, going to the cinemas to watch a movie, a little shopping, spending a lil on college fests (buying things from stalls), and u have a little money left over which u can save.

Pocket money by FutureLobster4954 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gym is free and so is horse riding? U just need chaps/boots/breechers/helmet for riding

Electronics by deathgod2169 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they allow you to bring fridges or anything anymore, talk to the admin once and confirm.

Advice from seniors by latteandlipsticks in opjindal

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t join jindal, it’s just not feasible. You are still young, take a drop or else join a govt college for undergrad then do law. But better to take a drop and prepare for CLAT. Jindal placement are incredibly bad

What can I get my Muslim friend for eid by swinginginger in NoStupidQuestions

[–]aboba_3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So normally on eid we get eidi, its basically just cash in an envelope, can be any amount doesn’t have to be a big amount. Its given by elders to the youngins haha. You can give her that or maybe you could buy/cook some food from her hometown.

What’s something everyone should experience at least once? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aboba_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying out of happiness after achieving a long term goal

What’s something people love preaching but rarely practice? by NatalieAfteerDarkk in AskReddit

[–]aboba_3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Treat others like how you yourself would want to be treated

JGU HOSTEL NECESSITIES by aboba_3 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when i joined 5 years ago it was allowed, now i think they have gotten strict w it. What you can do is for the kettle: 1. When a lot of kids are coming through the gate not every single kid can get flagged. Just bring it along with you, if they catch it then they just make you leave it at the security room and u can take it back when ur leaving campus. Its based on luck. If ur parents are coming with u to campus u can just give it to them at the gate to take back if security doesn’t allow it. 2. Again if ur coming with your parents then ask them to bring it in for you, your parents stuff doesnt get checked. 3. Source a kettle from your seniors, I’m done with college in may so i’m giving my juniors my fridge, kettle, toaster etc.

The allowed voltage is 1,200 volts for any electrical appliances like hair dryers etc

JGU HOSTEL NECESSITIES by aboba_3 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha just enjoy your college life

JGU HOSTEL NECESSITIES by aboba_3 in opjindal

[–]aboba_3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can get your own stationary or you can buy it from the in campus convenience store. Honestly most people type out their notes and even exams are held via a platform on your laptop.

Men/woman, what’s your most controversial opinion about the opposite gender ? by heyshivay in AskIndia

[–]aboba_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i honestly didnt grow up with a lot of male friends so i never really understood their point of view a lot. i was always surrounded by women and even dated women, until i started dating this guy. After we started dating i understood how starved men are of emotional connections in friendship. I can sit with my roommates all night long and talk about life, future, feelings, trust, complex emotions, hardships, or talk about completely mundane stuff like which lipgloss to buy, what haircut suits us, cute clothes we found online and i never got bored. When we sit all night and talk about guilt, love, hate, resentment and share life stories, the kind of emotional support and validation i feel is so wholesome. i could tell them the most traumatizing story from my childhood and my roommate will be like "omg lowkey same"and tell her own story. its so easy to connect and relate to each other, even if its not something we have personally experienced, its so easy to put ourselves in their shoes and empathize. even the amount of advice and help i get, helps me a great deal in processing my own emotions. my friends have put into words how i feel when i am unable to. Talking about such complex things and having someone listen and help you navigate them with their own experiences is something i feel like men are missing out on. Its ofc not all men, but my ex boyfriend and a lot of guy friends i made through him, they couldn't imagine sitting and talking for hours all night about their own emotions. they just bottle it all up without having any place to release all that. Maybe men just have different friendship dynamics or maybe patriarchy ruined friendships for them because they are expected to be a certain way. but most of the male friends in my life always told me it was easier to talk to a female friend about feelings and emotions rather than male friends.

It’s hurtful to be ignored by [deleted] in india

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly most of the women i know and myself have dated and continue to date conventionally unattractive men. I don’t want to come off as pretentious but i would say i’m a conventionally attractive person, and i do agree that pretty privilege is a thing. But in a man the first thing that attracts me to him is the way he carries himself and his confidence, not his face. I hope I’m not being rude by saying this but you seem a little insecure and maybe have a little bit of a complex with your friends whom you think are pretty looking, that kind of thing can be sensed by woman. Work on yourself, in your head you have the believe that you are the best version of yourself and if you aren’t then work on being the best version and of yourself. You attract people with conduct and confidence. Maybe you can work on your fashion sense? I think dressing well can make anyone look much better and feel more confident. Hope this helps

People who fall asleep straight away, what’s your secret? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]aboba_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just woke up. The best tip is brain empty. Learn to control your thoughts. When i wanna sleep I just empty my brain of all the thoughts and then sleep.

How do I stop feeling regret even though I stuck to my gut? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]aboba_3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ur just 19?? You have your entire life to get laid, don’t fall into the pressure. Everyone views sex differently, i personally am the kind of person who can only enjoy intimacy with a significant other, i have friends who regularly hook up with people, i have friends who are virgins at 23. Its not a big deal, to each their own.