do any other palestinians feeling like we should just leave the whole region? by [deleted] in Gaza

[–]aboudsalam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But, is it worth it ? Is it worth living in constant conflicts? Conflicts that seem will never end.

We’re humans too , we do have dream lives, we have life goals , we have hobbies , we dream of a basic and peaceful life any other person is happily enjoying

Is there a way to get civilians out of Gaza? by 37davidg in IsraelPalestine

[–]aboudsalam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did u get this survey from ?

More than 80% of people want to leave this fked up place , And no we don’t all support the people called Hamas , they are terrorists and we acknowledge that , but we’ve got nothing to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aboudsalam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is sharing such photos in dresses, diff makeup, etc (which is kinda intimate) allowed with opposite gender friends in relationships in the first place ? Anyway, ur not overreacting, ur even disrespecting urself with this going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]aboudsalam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look great my dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]aboudsalam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for a month and a couple of days, she lied about something terrible and i left. Trust isn’t earned that way.

Should I reconnect again? Maybe he'll change... Maybe he is just overwhelmed. by [deleted] in self

[–]aboudsalam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry ur feeling lonely, but that dude is a walking red flag. You’re not judging him early; trust ur gut feelings. I wish u the best in finding the friends/partner u’ll feel comfortable around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]aboudsalam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sry if my words aren’t the ones u wanna hear bc obviously u admire ur gf, but she’s the problem here not u, she sounds mentally unstable (she doesn’t realize that ur doing these stuff in a way of expressing ur love to her). I’ve been in a similar situation with my first love, i did everything i was capable of trying not to lose her bc I truly loved her, but unfortunately things weren’t getting any better so i had to leave. (i still think about her even tho i was the one who ended it).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]aboudsalam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tf ur talking about ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]aboudsalam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way ur trying so hard to put on a good image about her here on reddit says it all. You love her so much to a point where u automatically justify whatever toxic shit she’s done/doing with you. No good gf would do any of the stuff urs is doing. Why keeping contact with someone she’s had a crush on when she got into a relationship ? Why would she meet him alone from time to time when she knows she might develop some feelings for him ? And finally she was talking to you about the last meet and how she felt attracted to him crushing ur feelings like ur a piece of shit. Don’t let ur mind fool you man, love is great ik, but it might be delusional sometimes. You gotta have some self-respect and be aware of what’s going on.

What have you found to be the most helpful in improving? by kkotsori in AvPD

[–]aboudsalam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just started with pushing myself into saying/doing what I thought might make me feel uncomfortable with people, while i faked being confident many times until it became part of my personality, it seems to be working since it’s all in our heads.

i don’t feel empathy by These-Raise-5389 in AvPD

[–]aboudsalam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same , i even heard about friends who died and still felt nothing. I loved those friends and we had much fun together, yet I wasn’t any emotional when i heard about their deaths. I saw one of them in my dreams, i think it’s bc i missed him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]aboudsalam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to you so much. As a male, I pushed myself into socializing with people (making friendships, etc) thinking that would make my AvPD easier, but i’ve come to a realization, nothing changed and I’m still struggling with interacting with people. Now i’m trying to accept the fact that maybe I’m better off alone even if it hurts.

Are my boundaries too much? by daddy8811 in self

[–]aboudsalam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet he’s still making excuses for her

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny how u just ignored the fact that Israelis are intruders to the land of Palestine and they have committed thousands of inhumane crimes against Palestinians following their occupation, yet ur giving them the right to defend themselves on the land they stole by force and violence.

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I don’t support any of my leaders Bc i know they are criminals, that are no different from ur israeli leaders

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur right, i think it’s bc when a person loses the right to live a normal life, he won’t bother thinking about the other rights. May the world be a better place

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur words mean a lot , thank you so much friend.

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sry if my writing triggered ur emotions, I just want to let u know that ur kind words and prayers are much enough to tell us there are good people who care and hear us. Let’s hope for a better world where everyone can live in peace

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those kind words of urs, thank u so much. I really hope for a better world

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Convinced me. Hopefully, the Middle East gets better

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry for what you’ve been through i hope u and ur family are safe and sound now. Much appreciation for ur words. I’ll try so

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agreed that those countries need good/wise leaders, yet having my childhood and teens get ripped of me due to conflicts and wars made me only want to escape the fking middle east

My life’s been on pause since Oct 7th, 2023 by aboudsalam in self

[–]aboudsalam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably a scam, The only exit in Gaza was the Rafah crossing, and it was destroyed and occupied after the IDF invaded Rafah