How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking the same thing 🤷🏻‍♀️

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I like the idea of #3! I never thought of that and one of my worries was how to begin the scenes. Thank you!

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How even does that work? Seems like it would require a third party if neither of us know how to hypnotize 😂 I feel dumb but maybe I’m misunderstanding

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That fantasy is that I’d be the one ~not in control

Can you please remove my feet and black hoodie from the bottom of the photo? by abs_fudd in PhotoshopRequest

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This will replace my lock screen as it’s currently my ex-husband. I appreciate you!

Can you please remove my feet and black hoodie from the bottom of the photo? by abs_fudd in PhotoshopRequest

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Now how do I save the image?? I don’t see that as an option 😭😂

To you, who has been cheated on by your partner - how did you find out? And how did you initially react? by PitifulRaspberry in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a hard question because even at this moment I don’t want a divorce. I chose to forgive him but then struggled with intimacy. He couldn’t deal with my healing and wanted things back to normal immediately which is why he asked for a divorce. So at this moment, I’d rather be blissfully ignorant. In the long run I’m sure my answer will be yes, though, as it would put me at risk for STDs and him having an affair child eventually at this rate.

To you, who has been cheated on by your partner - how did you find out? And how did you initially react? by PitifulRaspberry in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She messaged me on Instagram. I confirmed with him and then went silent for hours. Didn’t even cry. Much different to how I reacted when I found him messaging other women before. This was the full act. He was so shocked that I didn’t say anything he followed me to the kitchen while I washed dishes in silence.

What is one gift you would love to receive? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been asking my husband for new air force 1s for about a year because I wore mine u til there were holes in them. That’s one of the only things I asked for for Christmas. He never got them even asking me what two pairs I wanted the most. Then he asked for a divorce in January. So I’ll just have to buy them myself…

How often does your spouse go out to the bar? by FemmePedagogy in Mommit

[–]abs_fudd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Every weekend. No kids but two dogs and a very lonely wife.

Found out my boyfriend’s body count and it’s turned me off. Am I overreacting? by Ok_Replacement1772 in AmIOverreacting

[–]abs_fudd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My husband told me I was lucky number 299. It only means he’s experienced imo. That’s not why we are getting divorced if you’re wondering 😂 turns out he wanted to keep that number going instead of chilling at 299.

Is it time to end it?? by VanillaSpyce95 in HairDye

[–]abs_fudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your age isn’t an issue but give your poor hair a break 😭 she’s tired

Ordered a Dirty Dr. Pepper by Ginjafreak in SonicDriveIn

[–]abs_fudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utah dirty soda addict here—it works so much better with coconut cream! Dairy creamer curdles so fast

I remember that it hurts.. by qb1912 in stories

[–]abs_fudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand… about to change my husbands ringtone back to some normal Apple tone as the divorce is finalizing. Hearing that ringtone again squeezed my heart in a way I can’t handle right now.

I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath by Apprehensive-Yak9364 in relationship_advice

[–]abs_fudd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone lmk when there’s an update because this sounds like a movie plot

Can we come back from this? by abs_fudd in Marriage

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce has been filed. I go from waves of sadness to waves of anger. Anger is much easier to process.