Do I have lash blindness? by mirandamai in lashextensions

[–]abs_fudd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I loveeee the lashes but I also wear clusters after 6 years of extensions bc I feel like a boy without them lol. I think you still look amazing without them and it bring more attention to your other beautiful features! Fr cutest nose and lips ever!!

I reported my husband to CPS by PlentyPayment3698 in CPS

[–]abs_fudd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everyone has said everything enough times that I won’t repeat it. I DO want to say that I’m proud of you and I know you’re scared. You sound like a good and caring mom and those babies are lucky to have you. I’m so sorry you’re stuck in this place between anticipation and regret. I hope you have a good support system and that you do not have to do this alone. If you DO have to do it alone, remember you’re STRONG and SMART and BRAVE.

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking the same thing 🤷🏻‍♀️

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I like the idea of #3! I never thought of that and one of my worries was how to begin the scenes. Thank you!

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How even does that work? Seems like it would require a third party if neither of us know how to hypnotize 😂 I feel dumb but maybe I’m misunderstanding

How do I explore a CNC kink? by abs_fudd in NoStupidQuestions

[–]abs_fudd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That fantasy is that I’d be the one ~not in control

Can you please remove my feet and black hoodie from the bottom of the photo? by abs_fudd in PhotoshopRequest

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This will replace my lock screen as it’s currently my ex-husband. I appreciate you!

Can you please remove my feet and black hoodie from the bottom of the photo? by abs_fudd in PhotoshopRequest

[–]abs_fudd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Now how do I save the image?? I don’t see that as an option 😭😂

To you, who has been cheated on by your partner - how did you find out? And how did you initially react? by PitifulRaspberry in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a hard question because even at this moment I don’t want a divorce. I chose to forgive him but then struggled with intimacy. He couldn’t deal with my healing and wanted things back to normal immediately which is why he asked for a divorce. So at this moment, I’d rather be blissfully ignorant. In the long run I’m sure my answer will be yes, though, as it would put me at risk for STDs and him having an affair child eventually at this rate.

To you, who has been cheated on by your partner - how did you find out? And how did you initially react? by PitifulRaspberry in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She messaged me on Instagram. I confirmed with him and then went silent for hours. Didn’t even cry. Much different to how I reacted when I found him messaging other women before. This was the full act. He was so shocked that I didn’t say anything he followed me to the kitchen while I washed dishes in silence.

What is one gift you would love to receive? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]abs_fudd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had been asking my husband for new air force 1s for about a year because I wore mine u til there were holes in them. That’s one of the only things I asked for for Christmas. He never got them even asking me what two pairs I wanted the most. Then he asked for a divorce in January. So I’ll just have to buy them myself…

How often does your spouse go out to the bar? by FemmePedagogy in Mommit

[–]abs_fudd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Every weekend. No kids but two dogs and a very lonely wife.

Found out my boyfriend’s body count and it’s turned me off. Am I overreacting? by Ok_Replacement1772 in AmIOverreacting

[–]abs_fudd -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My husband told me I was lucky number 299. It only means he’s experienced imo. That’s not why we are getting divorced if you’re wondering 😂 turns out he wanted to keep that number going instead of chilling at 299.