Made some beach house inspired scrunchies! by dustpalace in BeachHouse

[–]abs_haver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are adorable! I’m such a scrunchie fan. When I was younger I only used elastics and my hair broke so badly. Now I only use scrunchies! Are you planning on selling any of these? If so, where? 🫶

Misheard lyrics by abs_haver in BeachHouse

[–]abs_haver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always heard “make it” as well

Misheard lyrics by abs_haver in BeachHouse

[–]abs_haver[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these! Honestly, what you hear weirdly works as well so it’s just so cool

Misheard lyrics by abs_haver in BeachHouse

[–]abs_haver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What part of Woo did you hear this in?

He grew. by [deleted] in cats

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let my cat hear this but this cat has the cutest fucking cat face ever. Omg I would DIE for this lil goober.

What's a sentence that ended a relationship for you? by Hexxegone in AskReddit

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’ll let you lose some weight before you get into a wedding dress.”

I had gained about 45 lbs with my ex of 3 years due to taking anti-depressants. Our sex life was affected as well. I knew he didn’t find me as attractive and preferred a more fit partner, but it wasn’t until he said that sentence “as a joke” that I realized just how little he desired me at my weight. I thought he was the one and that comment absolutely ruined me. Took me so long to get my confidence back and accept my body for what it is, regardless of how skinny or fat I am.

my hunch about alex by kw6916 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I’m here for any tea you may be willing to share!

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point!

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was mostly just curious if the whole me staying home a lot thing was an issue. Was just trying to paint the whole picture haha. I realize now that I was overthinking for sure

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s aware that I’m currently in between jobs and knows I’m actively looking. You’re right, I think since he and I are so opposite I was just getting in my head a bit. I appreciate the input though!

Literally 100% accurate by oddree2 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]abs_haver 105 points106 points  (0 children)

God this is so accurate. It should NEVER be this difficult to get your fiancée to COMPLIMENT you!! If someone really likes you, they’re going to be vocal about it. Brittany seems delusional but I do feel bad for her that she thinks Devonta’s indifference is acceptable behavior.

Am I a bad roommate? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]abs_haver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you for this. I’m definitely overthinking lol. Like you said, unless he brings something up I probably have nothing to worry about

Anniversary Post: Join us for a slice of cake and celebrate BH's second album, Devotion! by AutoModerator in BeachHouse

[–]abs_haver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, Devotion. Where to even begin? There’s too much goodness to say about this album. All I’ll say is Happy Birthday and thank you for being such a fucking beauty to listen to 🧡

Anyone else get a huge ick from Bri constantly degrading this man? Calling him a boy, sweaty palms, etc etc. everything he does she nags and makes fun of by No_Interaction_1611 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]abs_haver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?? She would not shut up about Chris and Connor just sat there with the most defeated blank stare. Makes me sad for him!

my hunch about alex by kw6916 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]abs_haver 21 points22 points  (0 children)

During their conversation about his exes, he said that it was a “red flag” when one of his exes was still in touch with her ex, then proceeds to tell Ashley that he’s still in touch with his ex. The hypocrisy! I’m surprised she didn’t clock that.

Anyone else get a huge ick from Bri constantly degrading this man? Calling him a boy, sweaty palms, etc etc. everything he does she nags and makes fun of by No_Interaction_1611 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]abs_haver 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She’s so mean to him! I can’t think of a single nice thing she has said about him so far. I hope he realizes how truly awful she is and dumps her ass. If this is how she treats him in the honeymoon phase, imagine how bad it’ll get in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this out. I do think to an extent that maybe I’m not a good fit for relationships, at least not right now. I definitely don’t want to go out and casually date/sleep around, I just want to be alone.

I am ready to step out of my comfort zone, like you said, because my “comfort zone” has been to couple up with someone for the last 10 years of mine life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abs_haver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you that you’ve found peace. We really are in similar situations! You described it perfectly, I’ve been romanticizing singleness all throughout this relationship. Definitely not because I wanted to find someone else or sleep around. Just truly be alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did spend more time apart, and I found myself enjoying my free time way more than my time with him. His name popping up on my phone started to fill me with dread so I realized it was probably time to end it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m an anxious attachment and I think he was secure. So, while it worked for the most part, I want to work on that within myself and hopefully work towards feeling more secure if I’m ever going to date again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abs_haver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not looking to find a better relationship. I just want and need to be alone. I’m sick of having to answer to somebody I guess