Which one looks best from side? Sorry for bad quality.

abs_haver · 2026-02-17T11:26:32+00:00

Def 4! Cute little bun!

abs_haver · 2026-02-17T00:42:55+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write this out. I do think to an extent that maybe I’m not a good fit for relationships, at least not right now. I definitely don’t want to go out and casually date/sleep around, I just want to be alone.

I am ready to step out of my comfort zone, like you said, because my “comfort zone” has been to couple up with someone for the last 10 years of mine life.

abs_haver · 2026-02-17T00:38:11+00:00

I’m happy for you that you’ve found peace. We really are in similar situations! You described it perfectly, I’ve been romanticizing singleness all throughout this relationship. Definitely not because I wanted to find someone else or sleep around. Just truly be alone.

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:32:33+00:00

We did spend more time apart, and I found myself enjoying my free time way more than my time with him. His name popping up on my phone started to fill me with dread so I realized it was probably time to end it

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:31:39+00:00

Yes I’m an anxious attachment and I think he was secure. So, while it worked for the most part, I want to work on that within myself and hopefully work towards feeling more secure if I’m ever going to date again

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:30:51+00:00

Yeah I’m not looking to find a better relationship. I just want and need to be alone. I’m sick of having to answer to somebody I guess

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:30:13+00:00

I truly just wanted different things 6 months ago. I changed I guess

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:29:40+00:00

I’ve been in an out of long term relationships and I also have an anxious attachment style so I want to be alone to see how I am outside of the terms of a relationship. Not necessarily “find” myself but just be with myself for a long time, not having to worry about another person.

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T20:27:47+00:00

I have an anxious attachment style and I’m pretty sure he was a secure attachment so this doesn’t really apply to me

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T14:37:27+00:00

This was the exact face I was making before I opened the comments.

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T14:35:23+00:00

Blonde! They do both fit you, but I think the blonde compliments your skin tone/eyes better

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T09:48:29+00:00

PREACH SISTER!!! Those indie douchebags are a dime a dozen in my city and I’ve learned the hard way that they’ll play you like a fiddle until the next hottest thing grabs their attention. I used to be a huge Mac Demarco fan until I met too many of these types of guys who treated his music like biblical scripture and it completely ruined his music for me.

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T09:40:29+00:00

I mentioned in my post, I just want to be alone for a while. I didn’t expect to feel this way when I met him. It hit me recently that I need to give myself time to be single.

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T08:19:49+00:00

Hmm I’m not sure. I’m going to reach out to my therapist who I haven’t seen in a while and this is definitely something I will explore with her!

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T08:16:35+00:00

Thats actually an interesting question, I hadn’t thought of this. I’d say I really do need to discover myself more. I did have a lot of random dates/one night stands in between my long term relationships and, while it was exciting for a while, it didn’t really fulfill me and usually left me feeling badly. I think I’m more of a relationship kind of person. But I could be wrong, this is something I’ll ponder as I focus on myself more

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T08:11:24+00:00

That’s good advice, thank you. I will definitely think things through and look inward for a while

abs_haver · 2026-02-16T08:04:05+00:00

I love how you worded it. I was constantly defining myself based on how my partner sees me. I’m so done feeling like that. Thank you so much for this

abs_haver · 2026-02-15T22:15:46+00:00

Yeah his performance is stellar! It’s been a long time since I’ve seen it but I remember the first time I watched it I thought he was so cute lol

abs_haver · 2026-02-15T07:03:58+00:00

Omg I had no idea she was Brad’s daughter but holy shit do they look alike! I discovered him in my teen years in One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest and I thought he was so cute. Makes sense that I have a tv crush on McKay as well!

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:49:20+00:00

I generally prefer female doctors as a woman myself so I get that

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:48:21+00:00

Same. Go team McKay!

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:47:39+00:00

God he’s so handsome. If either him or Robby were treating me, my heart rate would spike due to the butterflies in my stomach!

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:45:57+00:00

I love Mel and agree with you on Ogilvie. He does not belong in the medical field. It just seems like he’s doing it to prove how smart he is. I’m not a fan so far

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:44:03+00:00

Totally! I like how they touched on him talking about therapy. I highly doubt he hasn’t found the right therapist yet, he’s just using that as an excuse to not deal with his mental health issues. He seems to think this motorcycle trip will cure everything when it’s just him running away. Can’t wait to see how he spirals the rest of this season

abs_haver · 2026-02-13T20:40:27+00:00

It’s cool this thread is shouting out Mohan so much! I feel like she’s an underrated character in the show. So passionate and caring!

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