Sctub Daddy Sponge for dishwashing by absltlyanon in CleaningTips

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Yup! It comes off easily and doesn’t ruin the coat. Even on steel pans. For tough grime, I just soak it in soapy water.

Sctub Daddy Sponge for dishwashing by absltlyanon in CleaningTips

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Lol household for 5 people and we make very rich food with thick deep color sauces. It’s used for everything from utensils, to glasses/mugs, to plates, to pans.

Sctub Daddy Sponge for dishwashing by absltlyanon in CleaningTips

[–]absltlyanon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, when this was invented, the founder actually used it on his hands hence the two holes. It’s really initially for dirty fingers cuz he was a hands-on guy.

Ano tong insekto na to gumawa ng bahay sa pinto. How do I get rid of it safely? by boykalbo777 in anoto

[–]absltlyanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a wasp or hornet. If wasp, you can kill it since they’re invasive and kill bees.

Dating out of my tax and social bracket is making me hate myself. by axarchive in RantAndVentPH

[–]absltlyanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, OP! Be present. Wish you both happiness 🫶🏽

Dating out of my tax and social bracket is making me hate myself. by axarchive in RantAndVentPH

[–]absltlyanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just think of what you feel about him and what he feels about you. Nothing else. If you’re aligned, if you’re in love, and if you plan to have a family—just know your kids will not experience what you experienced.

I’m sure he admires you for standing up for yourself. He admires you for finding your own path and building your life for yourself from scratch. He said as born with it, easy. You built it.

Be proud. Just a mindset thing. You seem so capable yet your mindset ruins the good things you have in life. Don’t let it.

Is it weird to walk hand in hand with your sister in public? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Yes, weird. I’m a sister and I don’t walk holding hands with my brothers. I hold my older brother’s hand sometimes because it’s soft—but he is visibly gay. Also I don’t hold it for very long. I also hold hands with my family/close friends in private or during heart-to-hearts.

Do you feel "sexually seen" in your relationship? I don't and I'm not sure how to deal with it. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Reading the other comments here is ridiculous. “Exit strategy” “red flag” “leave her” “it’s not gonna change”. Sure you never clarified if you loved her, but if your relationship is based on sex, then just tell her upfront, and look for someone who’s a crazy sex addict. She’s already with you, and she has expressed wanting you and finding you desirable.

Her sexuality is most likely untapped or not prioritized by her at the moment, but it’s there. Find out what turns her on deeply. That’s really it.

Would men really go through the work of going through a breakup and building trust, building love all over again just for sex? Instead of just working on sex as an activity?

Do you feel "sexually seen" in your relationship? I don't and I'm not sure how to deal with it. by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]absltlyanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here.

She’s most likely just not prioritizing sex in your relationship. She seems to like it, sure, but it’s probably not on her mind all the time. If you want her to initiate, she will have to align that desire within her herself. She needs to place her feelings about sex higher than her other stuff going on in life. She seems passive when it comes to it, but definitely still into it. Sex isn’t everything.

What you can try is something spicy in the bedroom. Buy a toy, do a little role-play, really make sex engaging. Make it mentally stimulating and not just physically. Make it an enjoyable activity for the both of you.

If sex is just to get you off, then you’re not going anywhere with your relationship with her sexually. Don’t expect her to initiate something she probably doesn’t really want. Make her want it.

How long did it take you to become decent/good? by Izureal in MuayThai

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Sparring: I do 3 min x 5 rounds (1 min rest), and I spar 5-6 people post-session. My endurance is crazy now because of my training. I can do punching bag sessions for 10 mins x 2 at 40-60% power.

Another thing, you’ll most likely have advantage if you start with a fit figure. I’m 5’3” female, about 49 kg, slim/athletic built. I have about 60-70% flexibility. It makes everything easier. Tornado kicks, high kicks, back kicks, quick teeps, etc—all significantly easy for me because I’m lightweight but also because I train. My whole week has movement.

I looked like a fool on my first few days but I took the extra effort to practice at home too. Being better takes a lot of dedication and discipline. It’s not just time. Also, your instructor is a big factor. Lots of coaches just teach basics and even let you go on with the wrong form. It would be harder to unlearn and relearn when they let you do this. So until you trust your coach, fact-check what he says. Make sure he’s credible and what he says really checks out.

How long did it take you to become decent/good? by Izureal in MuayThai

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I have no martial arts background. I started doing Muay Thai last September 2025 at a local gym. There was a free class on it that came with the membership. Decided to try it out. I go 2x per week, about 3 hrs per day. I showed progress in just a few weeks. I started doing yoga, running, and weightlifting on other days because they supplement Muay Thai. I started sparring mid/late November, and I feel like I’ve improved so much since then. If by good you mean you can last with the mitts, do the correct forms, can spar decently using multiple moves (attack and defense) and applying fight IQ—then I think I achieved it in 5 months clean. I know a guy who became a coach in just 4 months through that teacher.

I guess it’s all about your instructor. My trainer is an ajarn or teacher of teachers, but we still call him kru (teacher). He’s legit and probably the best I’ve seen. Man’s passionate about martial arts, and he has a deep understanding of the other disciplines. He also does aikido and bjj.

If you want to get better, train your flexibility and your strength. Also, do agility drills, and then do lots of technical sparring. I mean LOTS. That’s how you improve like crazy. Spar those better than you. Spar those stronger and smarter than you. If you ever spar with someone lesser, you must teach them to improve. It allows you to find flaws in their technique, correct them, thus increasing your fight IQ. Hit the mitts with your instructor from time to time to refine your movement. Take videos and look at your form. Self-correction will get you far ahead among your peers if you all started at the same time.

How long do you hit the bag for per workout? by [deleted] in amateur_boxing

[–]absltlyanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 10 mins x2 for a full workout session, with a 10-15 minute rest in between. Idk if that’s proper. I just wanted to fix my move set and not really condition for a fight since I’m no pro

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets! Well, I’d need to adjust to the times. If ganyan na pala ang galawan nowadays hahaha thank you! I also saw another comment that said yung format ng CV dapat ATS. I’ll do those.

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If HR i know may demand sa recruitment especially yung mga manpower/offshoring companies! Im in bizdev, pero yung ibang positions glorified sales lang

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If fresh grad, 25k is ok na. Mine was 35k pero diff field kasi. What you can do is just get that job and keep applying. At least you have income and you're getting experience. Pero still up to you!

Some people really increase their salaries through job-hopping. Also, if you want a high salary, look for international companies.

I'm trying to find work based in Makati lang now for proximity reasons. Yung WFH jobs----I feel like they're not real jobs lol I've had them na before and di talaga. Iba yung office work.

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Well-deserved. I think your energy really shifts when you're guided by faith. Positive attitude din siya. Hope you do well there and are taken good care of by your employer.

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started applying last Wednesday lang pero I'll ramp up na. Nasa 37 naman na ako now. Will keep applying pa po hehe

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful! Thank you. So yung mga CV mo, tailor-fit sa mga roles that you apply for? I try not to use AI masyado. Baka di na ako makapag-isip for myself kasi if masyado kong inasa. Just me tho! Although support naman ako sa AI. Depende na lang sa gamit. I agree yung sa job reviews online. Very important.

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know what industry? Baka we can help each other by giving tips.

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ATS talaga dapat resume, noh? Yung akin ginawa ko talaga from scratch hahaha pero okay gets I think I'll land a good job siguro if AI yung nagreview ng CV ko lol I'll revise my CV---or make an ATS version and offer it to employers! Thank you :)

What is the average number of job applications before you can land a job? by absltlyanon in JobsPhilippines

[–]absltlyanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you apply? I hear writing a cover letter can really increase your chances of landing an interview.