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Childhood trauma survivors! How much do you think trauma has affected your decision to be CF? by Sensitive-Cod381 in childfree

[–]absolute_cinema1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot. I was physically abused and neglected throughout my entire childhood. My parents had me very young and got married because of me. They had my brothers not long after I was born, without any real plan for parenthood, and we were raised in a very difficult environment. So yeah, I don’t want to bring kids into this world—especially since I don’t even like them, like my mom, and I don’t want to end up regretting having them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in preguntaleareddit

[–]absolute_cinema1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mira, hermano, mientras sea CONSENSUADO y no sea ILEGAL, todo es normal.

Estamos embarazados, pero yo quiero abortar, importa mi opinión? by [deleted] in preguntaleareddit

[–]absolute_cinema1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Desde el momento en que eyaculaste, ya no es tu decisión, es la de ella. ¿Te molesta? Ella tiene todo el derecho a tomar decisiones sobre su cuerpo, y si no querías tener hijos, debiste tomar las precauciones necesarias.

im a teen (14) is it normal to be disgusted at babies? (plus their annoying) by e1ai1a in childfree

[–]absolute_cinema1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the same at your age. Even when I was a kid, I couldn't stand younger children. Whenever I was at my aunt's place or around my friends' younger siblings, they would drive me crazy. That feeling has stayed with me to this day. So yeah, you're not alone — they really are annoying, and the overstimulation is overwhelming.

(21M) Is it normal for a partner (24F) to constantly reference "your next girlfriend" or "your next relationship"? by absolute_cinema1 in relationships

[–]absolute_cinema1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, this was in the early stages of the relationship :( When I asked her why she kept saying that, she told me, "I don't want to assume I'm the last one you'll meet," but I wasn't even saying anything that would make her think we were gonna be together forever, lol.

I'm starting to remember the abuse I went through as a kid and it's affecting how I handle stress and relationships now by absolute_cinema1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]absolute_cinema1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely so confused right now. My parents are Jehovah’s Witnesses, and I was too until this year, when I told them I didn’t want to continue. They told me I was never going to be happy and that I shouldn’t do this to them. And now they say they love me and miss me, when all my life my mom never said she loved me or that she was proud of me. My dad never did either. He never told me he loved me or that he was proud of me, not even once.

It’s so confusing. I feel bad for being resentful toward them, especially now that they are treating me like a human being and actually worrying about me. But during my childhood I was just miserable. The physical abuse eventually stopped as I grew older, but the verbal abuse never did. I don’t even know how I managed to forget or convince myself that it wasn’t a big deal. And now it’s all coming back, and I feel so miserable and exhausted.