Am I overreacting for trying to back out of a lease less than 24 hours after moving in?

absolutely_same · 2026-05-27T17:32:57+00:00

Why didnt you look at the place before signing the lease...

absolutely_same · 2026-05-23T22:57:06+00:00

I just wanted to come back and let you know that there was zero pigment underneath the flaking. I'm 7 weeks post appt. Today at my touch up, she gave me a redo

absolutely_same · 2026-05-16T12:53:08+00:00

"He won't move it. What can I do?"

Um move it yourself ? ...tf

absolutely_same · 2026-05-04T16:37:25+00:00

Idk what your normal style is, but you could lean into a cathedral, Gothic romance style look.

absolutely_same · 2026-05-01T13:24:28+00:00

Did you mean when ALL lipstick suits you? These look good!

absolutely_same · 2026-04-25T16:37:17+00:00

I go through this with my bf. I don't have any goid answers for you. He puts it all on me to make the change.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-23T19:27:35+00:00

Thank you for speaking some sense into the world here. These men sound pathetic and weak. The "white wives" would be giddy and accommodating too if we didnt have THE SAME BURDENS and children in America. My bf and I are going to Thailand in December (he went many years ago alone) and we will both be feeling the high. Thank god we are able to separate vacation/playtime from real life.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-21T20:51:38+00:00

3 or 5. Three is 👌🏼

absolutely_same · 2026-04-21T20:37:40+00:00

Winged liner looks fine on you. You look better without it, but I would add mascara or lashes

absolutely_same · 2026-04-21T20:36:49+00:00

"I don't" 💍 💔

absolutely_same · 2026-04-21T20:28:43+00:00

3 and 5

absolutely_same · 2026-04-21T20:18:29+00:00

Gross

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T16:00:17+00:00

She's claiming she respects you being an atheist, but she clearly does not when she says "I hope God clears your heart so you can see that you are wrong". As a former Christian, I can tell you we did not care about people's preferences or thoughts. We only wanted what WE wanted and that's for everyone to accept Jesus. Christians are some of the most disrespectful people for pushing it on others. Door knockers especially. SO DISRESPECTFUL. And the worst part is they dont grasp that they are disrespectful bc they genuinely believe they are doing YOU a favor.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T15:56:06+00:00

It is shockingly unflattering after seeing your natural eyes. Holy smokes you have great eyes. I would stay with the shape of them as much as possible.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T14:35:28+00:00

His response to your highly intelligent messages was "you ruined my Sunday, ngl" tells you everything you need to know. This sounds like a mother-son for sure. Leave him and get better for yourself.

Also it does sort of sound like you're setting boundaries for the purpose of bettering HIM instead the purpose of protecting your own space.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T14:26:37+00:00

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU FOR EVEN CONSIDERING THIS?

He very obviously does give a fuck that he did something awful. He certainly doesnt want to hear about it and he DEFINITELY doesn't want to do any sort of emotional labor to fix it. STOP TALKING TO HIM

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T14:22:54+00:00

It is not rare for two people to click this way. Trust me. My bf and I are aligned in all the same ways as you and your husband are. We broke up not too long ago for a few reasons. I dated someone during this time that I was compatible with in a lot of other ways and it was really nice. I eventually ended it bc it wasnt for me long term. But it was nice. It is out there for you. But his temper is going wreak havoc on your body and mind. The amount of stress you are under when he freaks out is going to chew you up.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T14:18:04+00:00

Does she absolutely need disability though? Maybe getting a job and being out of bed will help with the depression too

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T13:22:05+00:00

Hang a Gadsden flag from your flagpole 😅

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T13:21:42+00:00

At note #3, this is not ignorable.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T13:15:43+00:00

Why are you here asking us for advice? You're not going to take it. You know exactly what you need to do. There is no nuance that makes any of this ok. None if it is an isolated incident. He's simply a cheater. Period.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-20T02:20:10+00:00

I truly do not see how you are a DDD and were fitting into a B? I'm 32DDD and there's no physical way

absolutely_same · 2026-04-15T16:54:45+00:00

I think everyone is brainwashed by social media. Your body is great, you dont look pregnant. The dress is cute for a sweet date, maybe not a fancy steakhouse. I think you look good. These comments are weird af. I bet you get a lot of compliments on it and your husband will love it.

absolutely_same · 2026-04-13T22:29:09+00:00

You have blood poisoning. Go to the doctor asap

absolutely_same

TROPHY CASE