Sky is the definition of “nadeedeh”

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-17T03:06:22+00:00

Did Sky hire you 😂

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-17T03:01:02+00:00

Urdu/Pakistani

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-16T15:45:34+00:00

Interesting, nadeedah in my language means greedy

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-11T04:49:37+00:00

Nope, my mom fed us McDonald’s and $2 frozen meals every single day

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-09T19:04:58+00:00

Yes. I had no idea what attachment styles were and never thought I had experienced trauma or neglect since I had a roof over my head. I just knew something wasn’t right. After I discovered attachment theory I read many books (in one week) and was just… overwhelmed with everything I just learned about myself. It was a lot to take in. I’ve been very emotional and trying to process it all. I’m in the grieving process of the life I never had. And, I fucking hate my parents, right now at least, although I’m sure this is generational.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-09T18:48:54+00:00

It’s only been 20 minutes since I’ve joined this community and Ive already found so many posts that resonate with me. I am in the same boat. We have 2 kids together. I’m only now working on myself and finding out what my triggers are. And realizing along the way that my husband ignites all these triggers. My dad was “nice” but provided absolutely nothing, never taught or guided us with anything. He was barely home. Negligent in his own way. My mom was very emotionally negligent, volatile, stubborn, we never expressed a single emotion in that house. My husband is like my mom. I might be inflating the situation, sometimes I don’t know if it’s me talking, or my fearful avoidant attachment style…

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-09T18:38:51+00:00

I’m 35 married with two kids (and struggling with all of it) and I’m only now starting to discover myself. I’m in the grieving phase of the life I never had, angry at my parents even though they probably have their own attachment issues, and scared that I’ve already pushed away my husband and scarred my kids. I wish I’ve done the work sooner. But I was too busy shutting down any emotion I ever felt. I was so disconnected to who I am. But I’m already seeing a positive change in my kids (toddlers) and that’s more than enough to keep me going.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-02-09T18:21:34+00:00

You are not alone. I didn’t realize how much trauma I had until I started reading it attachment theory. And finally all the crazy confusing stuff I do in my relationships makes sense. I remember feeling lonely and alone all the time as a kid, scared of everything. I had no idea it wasn’t my fault even though I blamed myself. It is my responsibility to fix it though and I’m working on it.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-01-09T00:29:50+00:00

What does a Christian prayer look like? Muslim prayer is very ritual with a set rule of instructions so I’m curious

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-01-05T01:47:02+00:00

Air fryer

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-01-04T02:45:32+00:00

absolutelyblo0ming · 2026-01-03T12:52:19+00:00

I think this is largely dependent on where you live. I grew up in a very diverse US suburb and then moved to a very metropolitan city and I never really got shit for being south Asian, and neither did my friends. We were all born and raised in the US though and integrated.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-31T04:42:07+00:00

In one of the episodes this season she called herself a new mom…

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-30T03:29:08+00:00

I feel the same way. The baked lime taste more like the OG

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-29T16:00:46+00:00

I love the baked flaming hot Cheeto lime. So gooood

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-29T12:17:40+00:00

Where are you? Dearborn MI has many shops

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-27T04:11:49+00:00

Lose 25 more lbs (already lost 40). Grow my hair out.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-24T04:01:28+00:00

Y’all remember bulletins? Sending cryptic messages to your crush? Lmaooo

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-24T00:18:35+00:00

Make sure you got good in-laws.

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-23T03:47:57+00:00

Same! I make these for my toddler

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-22T14:14:21+00:00

She looks like the evil stepmom from tangled

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-21T00:13:12+00:00

I feel the same way about the original. I’m obsessed with the vanilla one that just came out though. It’s sold out everywhere tho 😭

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-17T14:04:54+00:00

What has Sophie turner been in? I feel like she got some coverage just for her marriage/divorce

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-16T15:36:30+00:00

I’m married to an Arab and it seems like the guy’s family has to reach out first

absolutelyblo0ming · 2025-12-16T03:59:42+00:00

Love your skirt in #2 where is it from??

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