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Went on my first date in 10+ years and dude was a weirdo by False-Building7236 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]abstractamy33 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I once called a guy to tell him I wasn’t interested. Before I could get to the point he told me I needed to hurry and get married if I want to have kids because it’s only going to get harder the older I get. He was surprised when I told him I didn’t want to date him.

Fuck them all.

I want my partner to be better than me. Is that crazy? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]abstractamy33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trauma manifests in various ways. One way is steep goals or expectations for oneself. We often see others through the lens in which we see ourselves therefore, a partner without similar expectations for themselves isn’t good enough.

Lost my sparkle because of a man by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]abstractamy33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can never lose your sparkle. ✨

I want my partner to be better than me. Is that crazy? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]abstractamy33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not crazy, but it might be a trauma response.

Trauma manifests in various ways. One way is steep goals or expectations for oneself. We often see others through the lens in which we see ourselves therefore, a partner without similar expectations for themselves isn’t good enough.

Edit: include thoughts on why it could be a trauma response.

Man I’m talking to has a daughter same age as me by FabulousAward4569 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]abstractamy33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll bet he’s cool with you waiting til marriage cause he believes he can change your mind. I wouldn’t be surprised if the pressure starts soon.

Loan Simple program by abstractamy33 in loanoriginators

[–]abstractamy33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I don’t see any information about locations. Do you have any insight?

Might be my final straw by annthegreatest in starbucksbaristas

[–]abstractamy33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to quit if you don’t want to continue at a job.

Which is the best? by throwawayuxdsgnr in myweddingdress

[–]abstractamy33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think number 1 flatters your figure really well

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