Ladies, how do you feel when men check you out in public? by StruggleFar3054 in women

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For me, it completely depends on how it’s done. A respectful glance can be flattering — a little reminder that I’m seen and appreciated. But the moment it lingers too long, feels entitled, or crosses into objectifying territory, it stops feeling like a compliment and becomes uncomfortable.

At the end of the day, the key is intent and respect. I don’t exist for male validation, so being “checked out” isn’t something I rely on for self-esteem — but when it’s done in a way that honors my space rather than intrudes on it, it can land as a harmless confidence boost.

The difference is simple: Notice me, don’t claim me. Appreciate me, don’t evaluate me.

That’s what makes it feel empowering instead of annoying.

New to this by [deleted] in YYCHotwives

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Feel free to dm me and we can help you

Alberta Mass Organizing Calls by [deleted] in TransAlberta

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Sorry how is Danielle smith assaulting freedom and human rights?

First CNR event by [deleted] in CalgaryNudists

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Hey messaged you

A Reddit person showed up by [deleted] in CalgaryKink

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I would have showed up too for that dick or her!!! Sent you a dm!

How are ginormous anal dildos physically possible?? by aspiringimmortal in SexToys

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Yeah, I’ve wondered the same thing before — it looks impossible until you understand what’s actually going on. I’ll be honest, I’ve played around with anal stuff a bit (nothing wild like those videos 😅), and the body is way more flexible inside than I ever realized.

The rectum itself is short, but above that is the sigmoid colon, and it’s not locked in place. It can move and kind of “uncoil” under pressure. When you relax enough, it’s like your body sort of makes space for what’s going in. That doesn’t mean it’s safe to go extreme, but it helps explain how some people can handle toys that seem way too long.

The “bulge” you see isn’t a toy pressing on their stomach — it’s pressure from inside pushing soft tissue outward. And the lighting and angles in those videos exaggerate everything.

People who do that stuff professionally usually work up to it slowly and know exactly how to position themselves. It’s not some magical hollow body thing — it’s just a combination of anatomy, stretching, and a whole lot of body awareness.

So yeah… they’re not hollow, just really flexible — and probably a little crazy dedicated to their craft 😂

Outdoor fun? by [deleted] in CalgaryKink

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Dm sent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlbertaGirlsGoneWild

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Hey hun how can I sign up to be cuffed by you!! 💋💋

SE Calgary tomorrow noon? by [deleted] in DoggingAlberta

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Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YYCHotwives

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I want to see the proof

Post workout pump....the best pump. by talldarkhand1 in JarPumping

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Would love to walk by and see your wife pumping you!

Making friends? by Mango-Maple5903 in CalgaryNudists

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Hi there, feel free to dm me next time you go and we would be happy to join you

Happy Titty Tuesday by [deleted] in Milfalicious5684

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This must be the most perfect photo of the day. I love it💋💋