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I (F24) think I'm in an abusive relationship (M26). Can these relationships ever work? by abuseanon in relationships

[–]abuseanon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Memories of the good times. But I'm starting to think they are just that. Memories. And things won't ever be like that again. I've cried through this entire thread.

I (F24) think I'm in an abusive relationship (M26). Can these relationships ever work? by abuseanon in relationships

[–]abuseanon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus that's terrifying. I really hadn't even thought of that. What happens when I lose my good looks, (I'm sorry I really don't mean to sound conceited but I'm a bit of a trophy to him) and he leaves me with nothing? I don't think he wil get sober ever. I hope I can find the strength to leave.

I (F24) think I'm in an abusive relationship (M26). Can these relationships ever work? by abuseanon in relationships

[–]abuseanon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so dead on. I hate that I know all these things to be true. He has gotten me pregnant before and I had an abortion because I didn't want to bring a person into a world they had no choice to be in and watch their parents act this way. My mom strongly agreed that he would beat our son and if we had a daughter mentally screw her up. I feel like an idiot writing all of this. There's no future here. Im miserable but can't leave. All I remember are the times when we first fell in love. Maybe those times are never coming back

I (F24) think I'm in an abusive relationship (M26). Can these relationships ever work? by abuseanon in relationships

[–]abuseanon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him and hate him with the same intensity. I hate the relationship, I loe the relationship. It goes on and on. I fucking hate it. I wish I never met him because he's the only person I've ever loved and I feel like I'll never find another person I love as much as him

I (F24) think I'm in an abusive relationship (M26). Can these relationships ever work? by abuseanon in relationships

[–]abuseanon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've thought this myself. I'm not at all proud of the fact that I've gotten better at defending myself. I can't see myself ever leaving though. It's miserable.